You will know romantic ideas for anniversary after reading each word in this article. Anniversaries are special and significant. They celebrate a couples commitment to each other through the vows of marriage. In these times, it's also a sign that the bonds of love are stronger than ever and growing each day!

Here are 5 incredible romantic ideas for anniversary, so you can surprise your spouse in your special day.......


1. A magazine cover - Take a good photo of your spouse and their favorite magazine cover to a print shop or graphic design agency and have them put the two together with a headline that reads. Hottest looking women for 2008. Or if you're are surprising your husband, use a sports magazine or mens magazine and put on the headline, Player of the Year 2008! Hottest body of 2008. Use your imagination and have fun.

2. This one is perfect for you men out there. Fill your trunk with helium balloons and take a ride in the country. Make sure to pack some drinks and appetizers. Make an excuse for her to open the trunk. When she opens the trunk, she will see the balloons leave the trunk, leave a special card so she sees it when all the balloons float away. Enjoy your picnic!

3. Their Hobby - Research their favorite hobby and buy them a very resourceful gift that will make their hobby more exciting. It shows you are paying attention and are willing to share time with them. They will be grateful when they realize you are also excited about their hobby and you payed enough attention to them that you recognized their hobby.

4. Write a song - Go ahead and take the time to write your spouse a love song, make sure to add in some of your favorite memories together. If you are gifted enough to play an instrument, play it why you sing the song to them.

5. Video Time Capsule - Celebrate your special day with a video of both of you talking about your special day and marriage. Save the video for 10 years down the road when you will replay it again. Make sure you take a moment by yourself to say something into the camera, something they will not see you tape. Then when it's replayed whenever, your spouse will see your kind words.

Hopefully you found some of these romantic ideas for anniversary that will work for you. It's a special day for sure and your spouse will be pleasantly surprised by your thoughtfulness.

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What do you do when your husband cheats on you with your best friend? I never thought this would ever happen to anyone I knew. Actually, I never thought this kind of thing happened to anyone. My best friend Gina, myself and Alice were childhood best friends. We did everything together. We even all went to the same college. When Gina met Roger on campus, it was love at first sight. They seemed like the perfect match and had everything in common.

I could sense that Alice had a lot of envy towards Roger and Gina for being the perfect couple. I couldn't understand Alice's barbed comments directed at Gina behind her back. But then again, I always had a deep mistrust for Alice. I ignored her catty comments, but always made a mental note to keep her at arm's length distance. On Valentine's Day, Roger proposed to Gina at the most exclusive restaurant in New York City. Gina was elated. Roger's parents were well-to-do, and he bought her an engagement ring to the tune of $40,000.00. Needless to say, Alice was beside herself with jealousy. She didn't bother to conceal her jealousy either. Roger and Gina were married 2 years later.......


One weekend, the four of us booked a weekend trip at a Club Getaway sort of deal, and after a night of partying and drinking, myself, Gina, Roger and Alice decided to call it a night. In the middle of the night Gina and I heard noises. We got out of bed and listened closely. It was Roger cheating on Gina with Alice. Gina burst open the door and had a stunned look on her face. I wanted to die. Needless to say, Alice lost a best friend, Roger lost his wife, Gina lost her heart, and I was stuck in the middle.

What do you do when your best friend sleeps with your husband? I know this is hindsight, but, I believe people tell us who they are when we first meet them. I never trusted Alice. To me, Alice always came across as competitive, manipulative and jealous, even as children. Gina always brushed off Alice's jealous comments about other women and flirting with other people's boyfriends. I didn't. To me, I knew that if Alice could be so blatant about flirting with someone else's boyfriend, she was capable of doing anything - even to her own friends. She proved me right.

As for Roger, he showed us (Alice included) who he was way before they got married. Roger was extremely handsome and charismatic. Lots of women flirted with him and he gladly reciprocated - even in front of Gina. I always told Gina that his behavior was not only disrespectful, but insensitive and hurtful. Gina, as always, brushed it off as him "just being himself". Well, I guess you could say that Gina was right. Roger was being "himself" and Alice was "being herself." It's too bad Gina wouldn't believe what they were telling her through their behaviors.

The moral of the story? People tell you who they are within the first few minutes of meeting them. Had Gina paid close attention to Alice's behavior and Roger's behavior instead of trivializing their behaviors, she would have been spared the heartbreak, hurt, and humiliation.

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Some of us singles feel like our life is incomplete without our “soul mate”. So we are on a mission to find this illusive person! Why we can’t find our soul mate online is that we do not know what characteristics our soul mate will have. We may be ignoring our soul mate everyday!

Our “soul mate” may have a gentle nature and aren’t as persistent as the other Singles that force their way into our worlds. You will find the persons that are the most persistent and aggressive online are not your soul mate. So if we are waiting for our soul mate to “steam roll” their way into our lives, we are wasting our time. This will never happen!......

Why we can’t find our soul mate online is that when we first go online we are pursued by the stronger personality types. The ones that will email us over and over again without even waiting for a response.

We may not know it at the time but the people that monopolize most of our time online is not our soul mate. So we aren’t available when our soul mate comes along. For this reason, I tell all singles do not spend your “down time” communicating with Singles you really aren’t interested in.

The “nicer” singles will not pursue you if they perceive you really aren’t interested in them. They will move on. The reason why we can’t find our soul mate online is that we are usually overlooking them! Stay away from the time wasters, that will insure you are available when your “soul mate” finds you!

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Information compiled from an online dating service explains that many male singles choose dating older women over younger women. Access to such information can be found on any online dating service that contains male heterosexual members. The Australian online dating service that helped compile this article shared some interesting results based on its male members profiles. Our article also gives females some food for thought into the minds of many of today's male singles. Sorry girls, we are not offering open ended secrets into the how and why of how men think ( Ill bet you wish we could though ), instead an emerging trend that is evolving in the style of lady many guys are seeking.

Our findings were based on 2000 male profiles. Our study was based on men between 18-45 years of age. The profiles we used were for men who were searching out a long term or serious romance. Our results do not indicate male singles whose profiles indicated they were only looking for casual sex or who were into serial dating. Statistics for men who wanted short term relationships vary from the statistics for males looking long term love......


Over 60% of the profiles we researched were low income earners and indicated that they would prefer to meet a female long term partner who is up to 10 years older. This same group of men suggested in their profiles that they would like to meet an older women who is financially secure and they would be willing to let their cougar take the leading role in a relationship if there was financial stability. Visitors to free online dating and singles services are also common in this demographic of male singles. The profiles we used in our findings found that financial security was the main priority for many. Free online dating and chat services were considered a logical avenue for finding singles given that there are no subscriptions. The men used in our study often concluded that the way to find financial stability and love could be rolled up into one package by pursuing ladies who are financially successful which often meant someone older and experienced.

Interestingly, nearly half of this same group of male singles had little or no female companionship in their younger years for different reasons ie: Did not have a mother or sister/s who were available to maintain or influence their upbringing, and subconsciously looked for this in later life by way of a more mature and nurturing type romantic partner. Male singles in this group were also found to have a submissive nature. They were content to be given orders by their female partner and to have the less dominate role in the relationship.

Whilst we have no access to statistics to substantiate how much this trend has evolved over the last 20 years a theory which is evident is that the progression of women's equality now givens women more choice and freedom that men have always had. Whilst historically women have played a submissive role in relationships, many males are keen to take up this role.

Comparing the other 40% of male singles in our group who are on higher incomes, half of these profiles indicated that they were interested in a long term romance with an older women. This group of men felt more secure than their smaller income counterparts as their high salaries provided security for them.

Not surprisingly, out of the entire group of male singles who were interested in finding older women, 70% of this group indicated a more experienced sexual partner was also a deciding factor in choosing an older women.

The main conclusion that resulted from this research was that the tide now seems to be turning in the singles and dating arena for certain groups. Many female singles are in control of their future and are no longer counting on men to show them the way.

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With special events like Valentine's Day coming and going each year, I am reminded how difficult it can be to retain your spirit of who you are when you're a Christian single.

It just sometimes feels like it would be easier to mold yourself into whatever your dating partners want, and then you can get on with living happily ever after.

Become what other people want you to be, date non Christians, etc.

I was recently reminded of this when I met up with a friend for coffee. As energetic, bubby, positive, social, million-miles an hour type of Christian girl, she was telling me about her new
boyfriend. They had moved in together, he didn't like to socialize, he was quiet and reserved, and all they did was watch TV......


They didn't even put up a Christmas tree or lights this past holiday season, because he thought it was all a waste of time. This from my friend who usually wears a Santa hat for the
entire month of December.

As we chatted, she kept justifying all of the things that they obviously didn't have in common. I then noticed her usually dancing eyes had lost their shine.

How sad, I thought. Why had she given up on her spirit?

During my many years of single life, I attended a workshop where one of the exercises was to write done all of the things that we were looking for in a partner. But in order to do that,
we first had to write down all of the things that defined us as people.

This prompted an amazing series of Soul searching questions.

1. What did I believe in?

2. What role did God play in my life?

3. What were my values?

4. What was important to me?

5. On career, did I work to live, or live to work?

6. What did I do for fun?

7. What hobbies did I have?

8. What offended me?

9. What did I consider to be right and wrong, moral and immoral, ethical and unethical?

10. What were my politics?

11. What were my dreams?

12. What goals did I have?

13. What about my family and the desire for more kids?

14. What charities and causes did I support?

By defining what I wanted in another person, I was first clarifying and refining my own self image and my own spirit.

I developed a vision of my Christian singles partner, based on my own definition of what my spirit was (as opposed to the other way around).

I became more and more committed to sustaining my spirit while searching for a partner. As it turned out, when my spirit was challenged by some of the people I dated (if they weren't
Christian or if we clashed on any of the answers to the questions above), I had the confidence and inner conviction to politely say good-bye and move onto the next person.

It still took me a long time to find the right person (or rather, she found me). I still had to suffer through a few more Valentine's Days, which always reminded me of my singleness. Yet, I came to realize that it had never been more important to know what I stood for.

You too can do the same. Answer those questions above and understand what you stand for.

Then you can continue your search for like-minded people. The Internet and website personals speeds that whole process up for you, letting you refine your search by specific age ranges, kids or not, divorced or not, white, black, location, income level, career path, values, etc.

Your spirit will truly sing when you start getting to know like-minded people.

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Can there be anything like friendship between two people of the opposite sex? Many people think that this is impossible but i think that platonic relationship between a man and a woman is very healthy. Many women confess to having spent wonderful time with their male best friends with the absence of their husbands. Their husbands think it is great and i think they are right. A good marriage is based on trust and something like friendships with an opposite-sex becomes completely inconsequential. You must agree with me that this is a new relationship phenomenon featuring in only this generation. The previous generations believed that opposite-sex friendships were a potential bombs to many marriages. Family and marriage therapists believe that the easiest opposite-sex friendships to maintain are the friendships which were established long before someone got married. Such relationships are not threatening since you had them before you were married......


Some of these friends are helpful when it comes to shoe shopping, some offer perfect shoulders to cry on and some good ones are good at both. They respect each others partners a lot. Problems come in if one spouse in marriage does not have friends from the opposite sex. If your husband has some girlfriends he will rarely have a problem with you having man friends. Dramas start when partners create new opposite-sex friendships and keeps it a secret from her/his spouse. It is a clear indication that the person feels romantically attracted to the new friend. Such behaviors greatly interferes with issues concerning trust and harbors romantic jealousy. If one partner is so outgoing and the other one is reserved. The reserved one always thinks that the other one has romantic relationships with his female friends. Such unclear speculations can lead to divorce.

Deep insecurity in a relationship leads to thriving jealousy which shoots form zero to somewhere close to paranoia. You should introduce all your friends to your partner to avoid panic attacks. Couples should establish an honest and open communication about opposite-sex friendships. They are very beneficial. John who maintains a close relationship with females some of who are married including his high school friend, Staicy. They usually meet once or twice a week with Staicy who is sometimes accompanied by her husband. John says that he values the perspective provided by married women. They are more knowledgeable when it comes to relationship and are far better listeners. Their advice is always great. It is quiet unrealistic to expect one person to meet all your social needs. Your spouse cannot be everything to you. Well-managed cross-sex friendships are healthy to any marriage.

When people get married they tend to place so many expectations on marriage. They expect the relationship to fulfill all the social needs which might be impossible. People who hang out in mixed gender groups are more happy than those who only interact with people of their own gender. Opposite-sex friendships are more fulfilling. It is described as a spiritual form of love just like sisterly or brotherly love. in most cases the two friends share some interests or hobbies which are not usually shared by the spouse. It is a wonderful feeling to have a platonic relationship. However your partner should always have an open invitation.

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I made the decision a few years ago that I needed to get the area of my life 'handled' called 'dealing with women'. So I made a decision and a commitment to myself and my best friend that I would do whatever it took to learn and 'figure this out'.

Some background: The girlfriends that I had in the past were mostly from luck now that I reflect on it. They were there, and I felt lucky to have them as my girlfriend at the time.

But I never knew how to approach women I didn't know, and I could sit in a bar for three hours making eye contact with a woman and never have the nerve to go talk to her. Right now I'm just turning 30, and I'm about 5'10" and 160 pounds. I think I'm reasonably good looking, but I've never been the kind of guy that women just walk up and approach. (I say this to give you a frame of reference in relationship to the comments I make relating to looks, etc.) I've made myself more attractive by paying attention, learning, and using what works......


When I made the decision to get this part of my life handled, I decided that instead of trying to start with an angle (working at a strip club, becoming famous for something, etc.) that I would like to learn in a way that gave me power to act with just my personality and presentation. In other words, I wanted to make this part of who I was rather than a 'trick'.

I have a rule of thumb in life that I use... it takes about 2-4 years just to get 'good' at something. And I mean JUST TO GET GOOD. Think martial arts, playing an instrument... anything.

Sure, you can have some success and fun while learning, but experience has shown me that to really 'get' something and to be able to use it in many contexts successfully, you need to apply yourself for 2-4 years.

THEN, I think it takes another 2-4 years to become a 'master' of whatever you're doing.

At the 10+ year level is usually where the Genius level really kicks in... My point here is to say that I've been applying myself for a few years now, and I am now at the point where I feel confident and in control around women. I encourage you to make this a long-term commitment rather than just trying to get an instant cure. It will be worth it in the long run.

If you're just plain lazy and want a shortcut, go ahead and try all of them. But you'll most likely find, like most others do, that massive success with this material takes practice, effort, and a commitment.

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Wouldn't it be great if your ex had a 'Love-O-Meter' attached so you could see it top the scale when they were near you...

Off course we all know life isn't that easy, so here's 5 tips you can use if you're wondering does your ex still have feelings for you:

1. If you still have contact with any of your ex's friends then an obvious opportunity to ask does your ex still have feelings for you is with them. They will be willing to help especially if your ex does still love you as your ex will no doubt have made this clear to them.

There is also an opportunity here for you to let them know your feelings so they can pass this onto your ex......


So communicating via your mutual friends or your ex's friends is a good way to tell does your ex still have feelings for you.

2. Another excellent strategy is to simply get out and enjoy yourself! Go out with your friends, it'll make you feel better for a start plus you will soon be able to tell 'does your ex still have feelings for you' by their reaction to the happy relaxed you. You may find your ex reaching out to discover what is going on and why you aren't devastated and hidden away waiting for them to call.

3. If your looking for signs as you try to figure out does your ex still have feelings for you then a good place to start is with those precious gifts and memorabilia they may still have. If they do still keep most of the items you gave or shared then this is a good sign for you, if you can again try and find out through friends whether that photo of the two of you in Fiji last year is still on your ex's wall then you can get some good indication, combined with other factors to ascertain does your ex still have feelings for you.

4. If you find yourself on the receiving end of inquiries from your ex's friends then you can certainly assume that they are interested still. Does your ex still have feelings for you? Well if they are asking any sorts of questions about you and your life then it's safe to assume they do. Many people miss this completely thinking that they just want to remain friends as may have been decided already.

5. Still on the subject of 'Just friends' if you are still getting the occasional phone call from your ex then that in itself is a good sign. It would be wise to note the time and circumstances of the call, plenty of clues to be gained here. Does your ex still have feelings for you? Well if they are calling late at night from a party or similar then it's a clearer sign than just the friendly afternoon call for certain.

So these are just some basic suggestions to enable you to try and gage does your ex till have feelings for you. There are lots of other signs and also some very useful strategies you can read about online to give you an excellent chance of regaining a lost love.

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It is during ovulation that a woman is most likely to conceive when she engages in sex. At this time her subconscious behavior is to attract any potential mate. Her fertility days are full of expectations of mating though she might not know it. Masculine men and ovulating girls always find themselves together. A strong masculine man can be trusted to bring forth powerful offspring's. This explains the preference of masculine men for short-lived flings but not for long-lasting mates. Findings show that the value attached to masculinity varies with context and also depending on the reproductive cycle of a woman. Masculinity is also opted for depending on her immediate goals and how attractive she rates herself. Some of these brain tricks play a major role in a woman's sex drive......


A woman who is ovulating behaves in a manner to suggest that quick sex is important, something she has no control over. Research shows that women love masculine men at this time of the reproductive cycle. It shows that facial masculinity is a great contribution. Properly defined brow ridges together with square jaws are viewed as good characteristics of a potential fling conquest. Feminine traits in a man's face are considered best for long-term relationships. It is during ovulation that some men have confessed that women smell better to them. A woman who considers herself attractive always go for the manly type of guys. The two groups of masculine men and ovulating girls find themselves attractive and so they do not hesitate to hit it off.

The choice of the huge guys by women who are at the pick of their reproductive cycles is associated to evolutionary biology. Hormone testosterone is believed to be behind all this reason being that its circulating levels in a masculine body are higher. This is the hormone that is responsible for the "ever-ready" sex status in men. It dictates the level of sex drive in a man. Masculine men and ovulating girls have high levels of sex hormones in their body. During ovulation a woman calls out for a man who has the same urgency to make love. Guys with hard bodies and well shaped, sculpted jaws are better candidates to produce even better babies. Their genes are marketable therefore it makes a lot of sense for fertile women to find them attractive.

Masculinity is not always the cool thing to a woman. Why would a woman opt for a less masculine man? It is true that manly guys are attractive to ovulating women but their less masculine counter parts are always the choice for women when they are not fertile. They are also preferred as long-life spouses. This might be because high levels of testosterone barely encourage men to stay around in their homes. Research reveals that less masculine guys invest more in their relationships making them definitely more appealing to women who are at their least fertility points. When a woman is pregnant she needs a great deal of relationship investment from a male. Masculine men and ovulating girls act under hormonal influence. The manly guys mate and then leave without a second glance while a less masculine man will give the woman the much needed emotional support. If you are a woman who is ovulating, think twice before you act. A masculine man is not every body's cup of tea.

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When we talk of sexuality we are not talking about explicit sex, either in word or deed. Rather we are referring to a gut feeling that bypasses the mind and body parts and stimulates all the senses.

Have you ever noticed the lack of self-consciousness and the confidence that someone really sexual exudes?

That's because real sexuality has nothing to do with thinking; it has to do with being-being alive, feeling connected to an inner core. When we are allied with our Inner Self we are turned on and when we are turned on, people are turned on to us......

In the classical literature of Kashmir Shaivism, kundalini is Divine energy, the snake that lies coiled at the base of the spine. Uncoiled, it moves up the spine, where it reunites at the top of the head with God, the Divine, and your own true Self.

As this energy is released it creates a vibration that is very powerful. This vibration is an emanation of the Inner Self and moves with strength and speed in the physical world. When we are in the presence of someone whose kundalini has been awakened, we pick up a different pulsation; there is something very attractive and engaging about this person.

Most of the time we have no idea intellectually what is going on-we just feel attracted. Initially, we may think the attraction is sexual, but that is just how we have previously interpreted wanting to be near someone. Now, all of our senses are stimulated, and we are awake, aware of a different energy that is both intoxicating and alluring.

This force captures us, and we are inexplicably drawn to the juicy feeling. We feel the need to move closer and closer because the energy is familiar; it may be the other person's but it is our energy too, Divine energy, the same in us all-and when we feel it, we know it. We cannot help but respond. With the other as a mirror, we are drawn in, never realizing we are turned on to our own vibration.

Feeling whole, we glow from the inside. This is what real sexuality is all about.

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