Look at pictures of 50 Cent with women...and who do you thinks reality is it? His reality or the girl he's with? She is happy just to be 'near him' and even if you take away the celebrity of men like this, if they still have a strong reality, they will still have hot women in their life.
I've said before that there is still hope for the average American man who really understands natural attraction (without having to be termed as a player or seducer); in fact you can live the lifestyle of your dreams while also giving women what they are looking for. Of course our women bring a lot of great value and excitement to life (why men fall for them in the first place), but I'm looking at the other side because men are feeling a lot of confusion when dealing with independent women.
Women are dying to finally meet a man who can just be someone who does not put up with her drama or puts and keeps her on a pedestal......
Unfortunately because it has become so much a part of who she is, it works out for the both of you to have a short-term relationship. Otherwise her natural independence and diva like behavior will automatically infiltrate your lifestyle and create a shaky and unstable ground because that is where her reality is based off of.
Of course women will say that they want the attention and to be put on a pedestal; this is only because this is her perception of reality and what our society has programmed her to be.
It is denying everything that is universally biological about her, and that is why she cannot explain it. Women have so many more options other than 'just' to be a mother nowadays. That is why things are different from what she says she wants in a man and what she will often accept when she does find a man (no matter his looks) who knows how to trigger even any little part of her biological unconscious behavior.
That is why she will often accept men who are ugly fat and balding only because they did not put up with her high-level crap and instead treat her like a lady where she is second and he is first (because that, I'm sorry but that is the way it's supposed to be (and I have proof) and that is what women want).
The 40 year old virgins that we have are a result or byproduct of everything that is going on (which I go in detail in my book as the 'forced reality'). This is a blatant slap in the face to the continuance and existence of all humankind. It is a very serious problem, even though we may laugh at it at the theater.
Okay the guys of us who of 'got some' may laugh at the theater but we may all actually know some guys who do not know how to be successful if women. This is NOT natural at all, I believe these men DO know how to perpetuate and go through the process of natural attraction in order to procreate; but all of this cultural junk and garbage has gotten in the way.
The pervasive 'forced reality' which is perceptual (yet so real) has covered what women want. Women still want a man to be a man (and this is just as real). Unfortunately the effects of feminism encourage men to be 'sensitive' towards women. This may stop most men from trying to be 'dominant' towards them.
You see all these ads with women biting men or men at their heels or service; this is part of the whole problem; but nothing has changed what women want underneath. In fact they want a man to be a man more than EVER. How do you give women what they want? Read my book 'Mens' Guide to Women'.
How can guys like 50 Cent live in a candy shop and most (American) guys are still so frustrated? Well if you look around, there's a candy shop of women everywhere who are fixing themselves up and waiting for a real man.
Of course they are competing with other women but for what final purpose? To attract a real man. You can't let their now inherent 'drama' throw you off; they're not going to tell you how to act. You have to BE the man who has boundaries.
This works for short terms relationships in what I call the AMP (accelerated mating process). Today's women are very sexually aware and repressed. They don't want to keep attracting jerks. They are wondering why their physical counterparts don't 'get it' and have had to settle for less in many cases even to relieve their sexual repression.
Women want men to be men who define their boundaries respectfully (and at the forefront) and then the woman can choose to be with him or not. Ironically, this is what she is massively attracted to because the paradigm is finally set naturally and because no other (healthy and balanced) men are doing this.Author: Rion Williams offers a free newsletter subscription on how to have 'natural success with women' and dating. You can sign up for the free newsletter just by visiting his website 'http://www.mensguidetowomen.com/E_player.htm' You will receive some free bonuses as well and you can then read about his 352 page unabridged 'Men's Guide to Women' instantly downloadable eBook. It will change the way you think about dating and women forever.
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It is an experience that most people would remember: their first French kiss. Some people would say it was a great experience while some would prefer not to mention it. But, we all know that French kissing is a very delicate and sensual experience.
Research has said that women's lips are one of their erogenous zone, so it's important for men to leave a lasting impression with women. And if you French kiss her like no one else, you'll most likely to kiss something else of her next.
The skill of kissing does not simply consist of knowing how to move your tongue inside a woman's mouth without hitting her tonsils. It involves the entire mouth - the lips, tongue, teeth, and the rest of the body.
Here are some basics:......
1) Give the lady a hand.
Position your hands on her body while kissing her. Hold her face firmly but gently as you slip your tongue inside her mouth and suck on her lips. This will definitely make her toes curl.
Also, try to gently pull her hair back from the back or slightly squeezing the part of her body that is located right under her breasts (her ribs). This could make for some very enticing kissing sessions.
2) Pay attention to the way she kiss.
People often give out what they would like to receive, so pay attention to the way she kisses you. That could be an indication of the way she wants you to kiss her. Does she bite on your lips or try to gently suck all the saliva off your tongue? Reciprocate by doing the same. She will love you for it.
3) Tell her what you like.
Does your loved one kiss you like she's trying to suck the life out of your body? Does she kiss too fast, too slow, or without using her tongue? Try not to tell her what you don't like, but rather what you do like. That way you won't hurt her feelings.
4) Control her mouth.
The next time you kiss her, hold her face with your hands tenderly and kiss her the way you would like to be kissed. If she is not turn on by this, then your sensual tongue will surely do the trick.
5) Make it long-lasting.
Women loved long, slow, juicy, and enticing kisses. Your partner will definitely feel your passion through one of those prolonged tender kissing moments. Just like in the movies, kiss her hard and deep.
Now that you've discovered the basics of kissing, let's move on to some ways to make her think and want to kiss you all the time, hopefully. Here are some simple tips that can make you the ultimate Casanova:
1) Suck on her tongue.
Turn your mouth into a soft suctioning device on her tongue. Suck on her tongue mimicking the way you would suck on a woman's clitoris.
2) Lick her lips with your tongue.
Lick on her upper and lower lips in a slow, ticklish fashion. Once you have lubricated them adequately with your saliva, move your lips around her lips and let your saliva wet both of your mouths.
3) Suck on her lips.
If licking her lips quickly makes her wanting more, then begin sucking on her lips. Do it one at a time as no one wants to feel as though they've stuck their mouth inside a vacuum. Be careful when you suck on her lips; don't get too rough or she will get turn off and pushes you off. You would not want that to happen, do you?
4) Move beyond her mouth.
Don't be shy. You would not want to confine yourself to kissing just her lips. There's a whole face and body to explore. Go ahead and French kiss her chin, her neck and her breasts? Kiss her eyes, behind her ears or her wrists. Be bold and try something different. You'd be surprised at the results that a little creativity can produced.
If you've never been complimented on your kissing techniques before, now you'll know the basics of being a professional kisser. A quick way to tell if she enjoyed the experience: when you kiss her and then pull back, her eyes stay closed for just a moment longer. This usually means that she thoroughly enjoyed your kiss and there's a good chance that you could take it a step further. Just remember that everything starts with a kiss.Author: Joshua Wong works as an Accounts Executive and wants to promote awareness to good music and music appreciation. He's also into the concept of internet marketing. Visit http://www.e4l.biz/money.htm?wcw1908
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Who teaches men to be effective lovers? Until now, no one. The prevailing word in that question is “effective.” Almost any woman can compile a list of ineffective teachers. Most women that I have interviewed report that their male partner has few clues about how to be a consistently effective lover.
Every man has teachers. His own “urge to merge” provides the drive. Then he looks around for guidance in how to use that phallic power. Other boys or men will share their stories of sexual prowess. The movies and TV provide sexual images, portraying what appear to be well-received offers and action leading to sexual intercourse. Most young men (of any age) find their way to pornography. Pictures and videos provide models for sexual intercourse.
We all recognize the scene. First of all, the woman is obviously ready, willing and able. Most times a passionate kiss begins the encounter. She responds eagerly and passionately to his kiss and embrace. Both begin almost immediately to rip off each other’s clothing, and find an acceptable space for the man to lie on top of her. We may see a few seconds of his passionate caressing of her breasts and nipples, and then, almost immediately he is inside of her and she is moaning in ecstasy. The next scene usually shows one of them leaving the bed, either soon thereafter or early the next morning. End of one more ineffective lesson.
In spite of the prevalence of public sexual imagery, our culture remains sex-phobic and uneducated. Most women have little permission to explore the sensual riches of their own bodies or to experience the fullness of their own sexual passions. Therefore, most women are unprepared to teach their male lovers what to do. The almost mythic story of the older woman who takes the young male and teaches him the secrets of sexual intercourse remains fascinating and always a bit frowned upon.
Relationships are usually fragile. Sexual incompatibility, which adds to relationship tensions, frequently has more to do with ignorance than with poor intention. The time has come to move beyond cultural taboos to sensitive, relationship-affirming sexual education for women and for men.Author: Kaye Wray, Ph.D., has been a teacher and researcher for over 35 years. As a bisexual woman, she has spent most of her life paying attention to women’s sensuality and sexual responses. Acquiring information both from the perspective of how a woman receives optimum sexual pleasure and of how to provide optimum sexual pleasure to a woman, she is now sharing that information with couples who are serious about improving their relationships, with women who want to claim the fullness of their own sexual passions, and with men who want to be better lovers. For more information on intimacy education, go to http://www.lovingwomenwell.com
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Goodbye SNAG, Hello Masculine Man!
What is a SNAG (Sensitive New Age Guy) and What is a Masculine Man?
A couple of decades ago, we all got a little ‘too politically correct’ and created the SNAG.
Madonna added fuel to the fire with her catchy lyrics, “You know, you know you've got to make him express how he feels…maybe then you’ll know your love is real.”
Guys got confused and out came the dozen roses and daily “I love you” comments.
But it didn’t work.
Why?
Women aren’t attracted to overly-sensitive nice guys who express their feelings all the time.
So, how do you attract women these days?
Well, for those of you who aren’t up to speed - SNAG’s have been deleted from the ‘wish lists’ of women all over the world.
Common traits of a S.N.A.G (Sensitive New Age Guy)
He might:
- Cry at a wedding or during a soppy movie.
- Tell you that he’s in touch with his ‘feminine side’.
- Be overly polite to women.
- Be attracted to women who ‘mother’ him.
- Find that he can relate better to women. Yet, when you look closely - he never gets to date any of them!
- Be a shoulder to cry on for women, when they ‘complain’ about the drama with their boyfriends (who are not SNAGs).
- Like wearing pink.
So, if SNAGs are the leftovers from the ‘too politically correct 90s’, what’s on the menu in the modern world?
Quite simply, masculine men are back and we’re here to stay.
Common traits of a MASCULINE MAN
He:
- He can enjoy the emotions of a wedding or a soppy movie, but doesn’t need to cry to express his appreciation.
- Expresses masculinity through his behavior and psychology.
- Knows how to make a woman feel feminine.
- Isn’t attracted to women who refuse to play the feminine role in a relationship. Example: Miranda from Sex and The City.
- Knows what he wants in life.
- Is confident when interacting with women.
- Relates well with women and also gets to date as many of them as he likes.
- Is often the guy that women are talking about.
- Doesn’t wear pink.
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Have you ever approached a woman at a party but have been turned away? Are you often unsuccessful in your attempts at getting yourself a date with the girl you have secretly admired? Have you faced humiliation for your endeavors? If yes, help's at hand.
Most of us are not born flirts. And let's accept it does take a while before one can learn the tips and tricks of getting 'acquainted' with women. Until then, one has to learn to take the humiliation in good spirit, without feeling too self-conscious. But one important thing that you need to remember is that even if it's the first time you're approaching a woman, there are certain dos and don'ts that you need to follow if you don't want to completely put the girl off.
One of the most important things is your looks. No, this does not mean that you have to be a Greek God - just looking presentable is enough. Model Joanne Robinson feels that since the first impression is usually the last impression, it's important to be dressed appropriately.
"You don't have to be dressed in brands, just a simple shirt and jeans would do," she says. One thing that completely turns her off is tight-fitting t-shirts, especially when worn by men who don't have a great body. "Why can't men simply wear a shirt!" she exclaims.
It's great if you've got the looks. But if you don't have the right attitude, things might not work for you, warns actress Melissa. "The body language plays an important role. One has to be confident when approaching a woman," she explains. But over-confidence can backfire, warns actor Robert Clark. "Too much attitude can be a put-off. Just be yourself and be confident of who you are. Don't pretend to be a Robert De Niro. Good humor, of course, helps, but please don't bore a woman with PJs.
Since we're on the topic of body language, V J Don Ford advises that men should keep a check on where they're looking. "Look her in the eye... however distracting it is elsewhere. And avoid too much alcohol, for it can make you do things that you might regret later," warns Ford.
Many men equate humor with one-liners, which is definitely not the case. Robinson finds one-liners a total put-off. "The most common one-liner that I've been subjected to is 'I think we've met before... or was it your sister?' They expect me to react positively when they claim that they know my twin sister Kim, which is ridiculous," she says, exasperated.
Bragging is regarded as one of the most unpopular traits among women as well as men. While it is wise to keep the conversation going, vanity is the last thing that would interest a woman. Instead of talking about themselves, their money, their cars and so on, they should make an attempt to know more about the woman. And more importantly, compliment them where required. However, being sugary and syrupy or making cheesy remarks doesn't work. It sounds so unoriginal.
Actress Mona Wasu is wary of men who use polite gestures for subtle signals. "I was in school and was on talking terms with a guy who was with me in my tuition class. One day he asked me if I had a reference book that he could borrow. I didn't have the book but told him that I could borrow it from a friend for him. When we were on our way back from my friend's home, he presented me with a flower and proposed to me.
I was shocked but I expressed my feelings, to which he said that the fact that I was making such an effort was a sign that I'm interested!" explains Wasu.
It's true - men don't take rejection too well; and worse, become a pile-on. I recall an incident: "One of my friends used to approach women by asking them for a dance. And if they declined him he would simply say; 'Oh, I don't feel like dancing either!' and would refuse to budge, trying to make small talk with them. I'm sure that can get very irritating."
Rejection is part of life but why be a spoil sport? Let's face it, these embarrassing moments give us a reason to laugh years later when we think about them. So go on, don't give up.
Author: Michael Douglas is a relationship expert and the webmaster of http://www.mendatingmanual.com where he provides tips and advice on how to ask a girl for her phone number and how to get physical with her
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Do you often find it hard to get girls to like you?
Well if so, you're not alone.
One of life's major problems is getting a girl to be attracted to you and to like you. Now if you're like most men, then you probably don't know where to start. The question is how to get girls to like you without make an idiot of yourself?
Fortunately there is an easy solution to this problem. When I receive an email from my loyal list subscribers asking about getting a girl to like them, the first thing I tell them to do is to build rapport!
So what is rapport?
Well rapport is a physical and emotional connection between two people. Primarily with a girl it's having an intimate level of chemistry (romantic & sexual feelings). In modern language, rapport can be described as "hitting it off" with a woman.
So if you really want to learn how to get girls to like you, then you should focus on build rapport with them. And this can be accomplished in 4 "easy to learn" steps:
Step #1- Be a positive guy around girls
Whenever you're around girls, you must display a positive attitude and level of emotion. In order to be well liked, you need to show an exciting personality which stands out from other guys.
By displaying a positive vibe, you'll find that girls will be magnetically drawn to your personality. In addition, you'll become the fun guy that everyone wants to be around.
Step #2- Be an energetic guy
Girls are attracted to energetic guys who are full of life. So when you're around them, you have to smile and make them feel comfortable.
In order to maximize this trait, you must get rid of ALL negative feelings or emotions which hinder your chances of building rapport. So ditch the bad moods and sullen disposition. Instead try to be an exciting guy who girls want to know more about.
Step #3- Be a confident guy
Confidence is a MAJOR trait which all girls love about guys. So when you're trying to build rapport with a girl, make an effort to display a confident and alpha male personality.
By demonstrating to girls that you're not afraid to take charge of situation and use some initiative, you're demonstrating a basic attraction mechanism. In essence girls are attracted to men who step up to the plate and go for what they want out of life.
Step #4- Be a relaxed guy who doesn't worry about outcomes
The last step towards building rapport is to never worry about any outcome around a girl. Your goal around girls is to relax and have fun. This means you never worry about hooking up or dating a girl. Instead you simply act like a cool guy who carries himself with a quiet sense of confidence.
By cultivating this personality, girls will come to you. So you won't have to work hard to get them to like you.
So if you want to discover how to get girls to like you I recommend that you work hard to develop these 4 fundamental personality traits. If you incorporate them into your life, you'll instantly transform yourself into a guy who all girls like.
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Here's a little experiment I would like you to do over the next two weeks. I would like you to groom yourself better, work out at the gym more often, and "dress better" than you usually do. Then I would like you to smile and make eye contact with women and see if they respond to you than they did before.
Here're a couple of guidelines for this exercise:
1) Workout four times a week.
2) Shave
3) Trim your nose hair.
4) Cut your nails.
5) Make sure your hair is neat and well-styled.
6) Shower often.
7) Wear a tiny bit of cologne.
8) Wear clean underwear. (This is actually a confidence booster!)
9) Wear clean shoes. They don't have to be new or expensive. Just make sure they are clean. Go buy yourself a cheap pair of dress shoes at Walmart if you have to.
10) Wear a dress shirt instead of a t-shirt whenever possible.
11) Put on your best jacket.
12) Wear your biggest smile.
Yes, I know this may all sound very shallow and superfacial. But the truth is, people DO judge you on their first impression of you, and that's why you should always "package" yourself to look the best you can when you go out and meet people.
Once you notice how women react to you differently when you're more concerned about your personal appearance, you may not want to go back!
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In order to be successful in dating, it is critical that you develop a positive and healthy self-image of yourself.
If you don't have a positive self-image, you will never reach your potential in dating. Something will always be holding you back and keeping you from your best. What a shame it is to let your own poor self-image hold you back.
Your self-image is a confidence issue. If you don't think highly enough of yourself, you will not have the confidence you need to approach women. Confidence is the key and extremely important.
When you walk up to a woman, you need to know that you are a good looking guy. You need to know that you have a lot to offer and any woman would be lucky to have a great guy like you.
You need to know that you are a catch. You are not the average person. You are a step above that. You have your stuff together and in line. You take care of yourself and have a good body.
So when you walk up to a woman, there is no fear of rejection. There is no worry. And even if she does turn you down, it's no big deal.
Other people might get a little bit down. Other people may be shaken, but not you. That's because you have an unshakable confidence. You have that strong self-image. You know that it's her loss that she turned you down. You'll just move on to the next woman.
We will never rise above the image we have of ourselves. So rise up today and become the person you are meant to be. Make some necessary changes and adjustments so you can have the right self-image on the inside. Your confidence and self-image ultimately comes from within.
I know a lot of guys that women find attractive, but they still don't have the right self-image on the inside and aren't successful with women.
On the other hand, I know a lot of guys that women don't find quite as attractive, but they are very successful in dating because of their confidence and healthy self-image.
Remember, that in order to do well in dating, you must have a strong self-image of yourself. Once you get that down, you're on the right track and soon enough will be well on your way to being successful with women.
Mark Cockerell- baLooT Inc 2007 -
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