Having the Right Self-Image

In order to be successful in dating, it is critical that you develop a positive and healthy self-image of yourself.

If you don't have a positive self-image, you will never reach your potential in dating. Something will always be holding you back and keeping you from your best. What a shame it is to let your own poor self-image hold you back.

Your self-image is a confidence issue. If you don't think highly enough of yourself, you will not have the confidence you need to approach women. Confidence is the key and extremely important.

When you walk up to a woman, you need to know that you are a good looking guy. You need to know that you have a lot to offer and any woman would be lucky to have a great guy like you.

You need to know that you are a catch. You are not the average person. You are a step above that. You have your stuff together and in line. You take care of yourself and have a good body.

So when you walk up to a woman, there is no fear of rejection. There is no worry. And even if she does turn you down, it's no big deal.

Other people might get a little bit down. Other people may be shaken, but not you. That's because you have an unshakable confidence. You have that strong self-image. You know that it's her loss that she turned you down. You'll just move on to the next woman.

We will never rise above the image we have of ourselves. So rise up today and become the person you are meant to be. Make some necessary changes and adjustments so you can have the right self-image on the inside. Your confidence and self-image ultimately comes from within.

I know a lot of guys that women find attractive, but they still don't have the right self-image on the inside and aren't successful with women.

On the other hand, I know a lot of guys that women don't find quite as attractive, but they are very successful in dating because of their confidence and healthy self-image.

Remember, that in order to do well in dating, you must have a strong self-image of yourself. Once you get that down, you're on the right track and soon enough will be well on your way to being successful with women.

Mark Cockerell

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