Top Dating Post For Year 2007

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For your easily navigate through my dating blog, this post is made. This is my old dating post for year 2007 (when I started blogging). I hope this help you a lot to find the most favorite post in my dating blog. I know this maybe a late post for year 2007, because today is already 27th March. ;) Better late than never. Remember, only read the post in 2 days, never read all the post in just 1 day. This will make you tired. After read the Part1, try and feel it on your real life and relationship. After that, read Part 2 and so on. Rules applied to all part. Enjoy the post! And happy DATING.

Read this in 2 days (Part 1):

    1. where to take women on dates
    2. why women reject men and what to do about it
    3. the handshake
    4. don't let bad phone skills ruin her impression of you
    5. pick up women in a nightclub
    6. keeping your self respect with women
    7. 7 habits of highly successful dating
    8. making her salivate for you
    9. how to tell if she's interested
    10. understanding body language

Read this also in 2 days (Part 2):
    1. 8 types of guys women avoid
    2. flirt and making acquaintance
    3. calling her via telephone
    4. mastering your conversational skills with women
    5. the art of seduction
    6. how to seduce single women using romantic lighting
    7. getting started with online dating
    8. 5 tips for beginners, guide to online dating
    9. how to flirt with girls the right way
    10. how to flirt online
to be continued in 3-4 days! (sorry, I'm quite busy with my project - 100 Blog)

Author: baLooT from baLooTisme Dot Com

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What Makes A Cougar?

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I was enjoying happy hour with a friend when two well dressed, poor mannered Don Juan's came by our table to mingle. We were good- natured about their interruption. Usually strangers at dinner, or a bar, or on vacation make for good stories on days when we are feeling unattractive. These stories remind us of the days when we have it. It being whatever single attractive men are looking for that we have, but are simply unwilling to share for more than a cocktail. The young men sat with us, ordered martinis and sipped almost femininely. With the scent of their cologne wafting in the air and the clink of thick rings and bracelets hitting their glasses, they raved about their recent trips, ensured us that they would have loved it if we had been in Italy. We smiled at them, and raised our eyebrows at one another. After far too long, they excused themselves to the restrooms. We assumed they would return to pay for their drinks, but after an hour, they still hadn't returned. There was little we could do, so we paid for their drinks and left for the evening.

The next day, I was ranting to a co-worker about the diva dorks, as my girlfriend and I had dubbed them, when I blurted in frustration, "What gives someone the nerve to do such a thing?!" My co-worker informed me that these two cads are what many single men refer to as cougar hunters. Perplexed, I asked the question that has sent me on an anti-aging campaign like none other experienced by a thirty- year- old woman......


A cougar hunter, if you didn't already know, is a younger man seeking the affections (and probably financial support) of an older (older being defined as thirty something) woman. If these boys were cougar hunters, then their attack made me a cougar. Outraged, I shouted, "What? I just turned thirty!" My co-worker shrugged his shoulders and left me wondering, what makes someone a cougar? Do women turn thirty and suddenly become desperate prey? After a little more investigating, I learned more about cougars. I learned that I can safely say I am not a cougar (thank you very much) and there are some tell tale signs that you are, in fact, a cougar.

So, if the term doesn't sit well with you either, read on. Make sure you don't get confused with these catty women, and fend off sweet smelling boys wearing designer labels.

You know you're a cougar when:

1. You order a drink for the singer on stage and send it up with a note to meet you after the show.

2. You always walk into a restaurant/bar/room seeking the young single guys.

3. You offer to pay for your beau's vacation/dinner/rent/car payment.

4. You pinch the adorable waiter's butt as he passes by.

5. You ask the bartender to take a shot off of your belly, but when you lift your shirt, the bar sees your waist enhancing pantyhose.

6. You show your breasts at Mardi gras and no one looks, or if they do, they snicker.

7. You ask the valet boy to meet you in your room in an hour flat to "help you with something"

8. You whisper that you are naughty into the ears of a stranger hoping he will ask for demonstrations.

9. Announce that the next person in a bar to buy you a drink gets a trip to the Bahamas.

10. You date someone more than fifteen years your junior (I know, double standards stink... we'll come up with a good name for old men and young girls.... How about gorillas?)

11. You wink at the pool boy/ busboy/ any title ending in "boy"

12. You fantasize about the young boys on the O.C or MTV or the Jonas Brothers and you are over thirty.

After the research, I'm not sure how I was mistaken for a cougar. Perhaps it was my newly discovered wrinkle under my right eye. Perhaps it was my high heeled shoes. Perhaps it was my roaming eyes looking for a waiter. I can't be certain, but the mistake was made, and my perspective on aging is considerably less positive today for it. Although, there are worse things a woman could be called, a cougar is certainly not the most positive. I don't want to stifle anyone's sexual preferences (or means of obtaining those preferences) however, I just thought, if this derogatory title was news to me, it might be news to others as well.

So, thirty something and over ladies out there; wear eye cream, drink water, and keep your eyes on your dinner mates, lest you be confused with a prowling feline carnivore.

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Author: Angela Guerrero


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This Is Not The Dating Site For You

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By taking your time in the beginning, it shouldn't take too long before you know this is not the dating site for you!

First of all, it doesn't offer a free trial. Or if it does, it wants to secure your credit or debit card number before you can set up your profile.

From what I've learned, if your free trial isn't cancelled within the 14 day trial period your credit or debit card is billed for either a 30, 60, or 90 day membership.

Even though you tried to cancel, you never received a response. In order for them to refund your money, you will have to prove you tried to cancel. Good luck with this one...

During your free trial you notice your search options are very limited. If a dating site will not allow you to search by last log in date, age, height/build, religion, or occupation this is not the dating site for you. They are taking away your right to choose. You may be totally opposed to getting involved with someone within a certain occupation. By not being able to determine their occupation in advance, you are putting yourself into a position that will waste your time, and the time of others.

By not being able to search by last log in date, you will find yourself sending emails to members that haven't logged in, in months. But you have no way of knowing that. You will just assume they aren't even interested in you enough to respond to the initial email!

That can be hard on the ego!

Any site that will damage your ego is not the dating site for you! Go find the one for you...! Your choices are absolutely endless!

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Increase Your Online Results

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We know that online we have access to millions of eligible singles. Of course, we always want to increase our online results. There are simple, guaranteed ways to do this.

We want to "put our best foot forward". The best way to do this is with a very flattering photo. Make sure the quality is professional. Do not wear too much makeup or jewelry. The make up and jewelry is to "compliment" your appearance, not over shadow it!

Do not show too much "skin". The profile page is not the place for that. Trust me, you can be extremely sexy, and be covered at the same time!

You want to have an appropriate User Name. If you use a name that is crude, vulgar, and nasty? Those are the types of emails you will be getting. If that is what you want...ignore this tip and go for it!

I have seen profiles of people I found interesting, but their user name was such a turn off!

I couldn't seriously communicate with a grown man named "fuzzybunny"...maybe that is shallow of me...

I know people that use overtly sexy...actually to be honest they used down right "nasty" user names, and then they are totally appalled at the vulgar comments they received! I asked "what in the world did you expect?"

You can not increase your "positive" online results with a user name like "sex slave"!

If you can't come up with a creative name that says "Me", solicit input from family and friends.

Please keep these simple tips in mind and I have no doubt you will increase your online results.

Get started! It's time to get online and have a ball!

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Dating For Baby Boomers - 7 Tips On Introducing A New Man To Your Family

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Dating a new man should be exciting and fun. When you both have children from previous marriages, it can end up a disaster. Here are 7 tips on what to do before you get too involved with a new guy:....


* Talk to your children in advance and let them know you are starting to date. It is not good for this to be a surprise when you tell them you are dating someone new.

* Date your new man for a few weeks or even a couple of months before arranging for the children to meet. If you are not interested in this man seriously, it may be a waste of everyone's time for all of you to meet.

* When you do bring the two families together to meet for the first time, find a place that will be comfortable for everyone. It is best to avoid either of your homes or a small restaurant where people will be forced to sit close together. Instead, look for a place that has enough space for people to come and go as necessary. A large restaurant or a park is a much better choice.

* If one of the children does not want to go, do not force them. Tell them that you respect their feelings and then find somewhere safe for them to go during that time.

* Allow the introductions to unfold naturally. Let everyone have time to feel out the situation and decide for themselves what they think about the whole thing.

* When you get back home allow your family to be open and honest about the meeting. If they did not like someone or something that happened, encourage them to discuss it openly. If one of your children does not say anything, this isn't necessarily a bad thing. People need time to adjust to new situations.

* Let some time pass before getting everyone together again. If it is someone else's idea besides yours, that is a good thing.

These 7 tips will get you off to a good start if you are just starting to date a new man.

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Dating Over 40 Successfully - How To Get What You Want From Dating

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Are you still playing the field but want a monogamous relationship? With the number of divorced women over forty, you may think they don't want to be married, or they don't want monogamous, but the reality is they don't want demanding irrational relationships that don't last. And, SURPRISE, men over forty want the same thing.

Over forty relationships will be successful with mature, capable individuals who want to share life together and each have viable lives of their own. Are you ready for some solid sound advice on meeting your one and only over 40?

1. Be real

Nobody expects you to be perfect. You can actually have a few personality flaws, a belly, or a butt and your over 40 partner will not only accept you with it, but love you for it. If you're not perfect, they can be real too.

2. Don't compete

Who wants competition? What ever happened to just being comfortable within your own skin? Can you honestly say you want to compete with Barbie or Ken? If you're comfortable with who you are then your date can just relax and enjoy the evening without feeling the need to compete with who you want to be...


3. Know what you want

If you agree to a date with a city boy knowing nothing less than Farmer John Brown will satisfy you, you've got a problem from the beginning. Select people you have something in common with, but acknowledge that you don't have to be joined at the hip.

4. Accept independence

Find some mutual interests, but understand that you both have a past and you both have a future. Be willing to share the future but realize you can't and won't want to share everything. Accept the differences as benefits and appreciate your time alone or with friends too.

5. Quality

After you reach 40 you're allowed to expect quality from the person on the other side of the table. You should be able to carry a conversation, understand basic concepts, and comprehend current events. Intelligence and Values are part of the package, if you don't have them, you won't obtain them in the future.

6. Past

You both have a past, you have children, family, and friends, and you should be able to mutually share those without having to compete over whose family is better, or loves them more. You just have them, and you share them. Period.

7. Religion, Politics, and Sex

Yes, dear, these are topics of conversation and you're expected to participate as a mature adult with an opinion, not a temper tantrum. If you can't discuss these topics and keep a cool head, you might want to find out why and have that part of your anatomy surgically removed.

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Anniversary Gifts - Boring Old Roses Or Something To Be Remembered

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Sending anniversary gifts not only shows somebody how much you care and appreciate them it also shows what sort of person you are. The gift its self will represent how much thought and effort you have made so now is the time to pull out all the stops and find anniversary gifts that will really be remembered.

Anniversary gifts need not be expensive and more often than not some of the more thoughtful anniversary gifts are those that are filled with sentimental worth rather than monetary value. You may have considered spending $60 on flowers, and $20 on chocolates but your money would be far better spent finding a gift with a difference.

If the gift is for your partner then romance is the key, consider poetry or maybe even having a song written for them, these types of anniversary gifts are probably things you have never considered before but they really are within your reach and budget.


Did you know there are poets online waiting to take details from you to create a unique poem? Sending something so personal and thoughtful will be remembered and cherished for a life time. Once of the great things about buying any sort of gifts, whether it is for a wedding, anniversary or birthday is that the internet holds the key to finding fantastic gifts ideas for every occasion with out the need to physically enter shops, thus avoiding the hustle and bustle of a busy town.

When looking for anniversary gifts it is always wise to set yourself a budget, it is very easy to get carried away and over spend. The last thing you want is to upset your beloved by getting yourself into debt.

The saying 'it is the thought that counts' really is true. It is easy to pick up jewelry, chocolates and wine however your partner will be far more appreciative if they know you have taken time out to find something extra special.

Try to be imaginative, consider what they enjoy or maybe something you enjoy doing together. Nowadays with life getting busier and busier maybe your time could be the perfect anniversary gift. Take time out to spend with one another or book a weekend away.

What ever you decide to give as an anniversary gift remember you are giving this to someone you love to show them you have enjoyed the time you have been married as well as show them how much you appreciate and want to be with them. An anniversary is a time for a couple to be together and express how they feel, a dozen roses may seem romantic but is there another anniversary gift out there that says more?

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