To do that, you've got to practice by talking to women a LOT.

For every minute you spend reading or theorizing about women,
spend ten minutes actually INTERACTING with women in the REAL
world.

All the theory in the world is useless if you can't even get
the basic guts to approach a woman.

Get your butt out there and do it and realize that REAL
INTERACTION is the lifeblood of this "game" called
learning how to att.ract women.

Your goal in the beginning should just be to get COMFORTABLE
talking to women a LOT.

Just chat your butt off.


It's really no biggie.

Focus on your CHAT, on your voice tonality sounding
passionate and powerful and fun; not boring, and focus
on having conversations that are INTERESTING.

If you think you're passed that, then try to also
project a certain amount of your se.xual state by actually
thinking se.xual thoughts.

This way, all the tips you read will actually make much
more sense and also will prevent you from misinterpreting
the information.

You will have a real life CONTEXT in which to understand
all the material you read.

So make it a goal for the next month to talk to women
everyday, no matter where you find them.

Keep your conversations light and playful and avoid any
boring topics like the weather, your work, or any heavy
academic type material.

Bust on her jewelry or clothing or shoes instead of harping
on about the cost of parking spaces.

So what's with the playful thing then?

Well... EVERYTHING.

Stop being serious around women.

Most guys are way too serious around women and thus
imply that they are desperate, boring, and uptight,
all of which are ATTRACTION DESTROYERS.

Instead, be playful with women, and make your
interactions FUN.

Whether it's a fun teasing, or tickling her, or telling
her a funny story that really happened to you, or
role-playing with her that she is after you and you are
hard to get, all these are FUN.

Being playful and fun implies that you will also be fun in
bed, fun to hang around with, and also that you have your
life under control.

All this has "pulling" power in the same way a giant planet
cannot help but "pull" in any surrounding material.

Being playful also helps overcome her socially conditioned
fear of being labeled a "slut" for talking to you, or for
getting physical with you, etc, because in her mind, it's
all "playful" and not too serious.

Playful is not just about what you say, it's your
expressions on your face, it's your voice, it's your choice
of style, it's where you choose to hang out.

See, if you don't understand how women are wired and
how the dating process works, then almost every 'logical'
thing you do; things you ASSUME might score you points with
your woman will NOT work.

It's a whole new 'world' out there in the dating
scene right now, it's far more complicated than it has ever
been and everything you were taught on dating by the media,
your parents, friends, etc in past just won't flat out work
anymore.

I'm not joking.

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I want to give Michael Jackson as a "dating example" because he is a phenomenon. Since years his female fans shout and cry although it may seem unexplainable for other men. He combines several features mentioned here on this site that makes this more understandable:

* Dance
* Have that something special (this applies to his face and clothes)
* Be successful and self-confident
* Shaved face
* Magnetic Mystery Man
* Dress nicely
* The irresistible Resistible (he is quite non-sexual, neither man nor woman)
* No sex talks
* Impotent homosexual
* Do something for others (he sings "Save the world"-songs and engages in charity organizations)
* Don't symbolize a loser (he is one of the top earners and one of the best dancers)

He fails however at

* Deep voice (but he has a strong voice)

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When you have the telephone number of the girl and want to call her for the first time there are some things to consider:

• Don't call her too soon. This could scare her away.
  
• Call her 2 to 4 days after you met her. These are reasonable numbers but you can try different ones. You could even tell her when you will call her in the very moment when she tells you the telephone number. Stick to your word then!
• If you get her answering machine then you can leave a message saying WHEN you call her back.
• Have a plan of what to say. A blank head and stuttering give the wrong impression.
• Turn off any TV set or any music.
• Do a little bit of small talk
• After a conversational flow is established offer to meet her.
• Try to find out whether she is really your type.
• make a few suggestions where you could go together, but don't force her to a specific place and don't criticize her if she doesn't want to go there.
  A few places where you can go on the first date:
  • Cinema/Movies
  • Bowling, ice-skating
  • Restaurant/Coffee shop
  • Something special (Circus, theatre, local events)

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Read the following female rejection quotes and realize they are just words. These quotes are about anything that can happen to you. Be prepared to hear them and prepare yourself not to become the effect of them.

• "No thank you"
• "Sorry, you're not my type"
• "I have a boy-friend"
• "Get off"
• "Get off, you moron"
• "You? Never!!"
• "Shut up"
• "Don't waste your time"
• "Don't waste my time"
• "No thanks, you are ugly!"
• "No way"
• "Phew!"
• "Everybody has wishes"
• "Fuck you"
• "No, not with you"
• "You can ask my dog. Maybe he will take you"
• "Don't even dare!"
• "Grow a bit more and come back later"
• "If you were the last man on earth I wouldn't date you"
• "Sorry, but I am concentrating on my career"
• "Don't even try"
• "You stink"
• "Fuck off"
• "Are you a man or a woman?"
• "Get me a beer and get off"
• "Sorry, I am not in the right mood for this"
• "Sorry, I am not THAT kind of girl"
• "Hey, girls, look at him"
• "Oh, god, not again"
• "Do I look like I would hang out with guys like you?"
• "Go to Jerry Springer, you freak"
• "With you? Why should I?"
• "I don't date co-workers"
• "Yeah, but I don't like YOU"
• "It's not you. It's me"
• "Would you please leave me alone"
• "Where did they let YOU out?"
• "I don't date neighbors"
• "No, I just want to have friendly relationship. I need a friend not a lover"
• "You're too old"
  "You're 20 years too old"
  "You're too young"
  "You're not my age"
• "With you? Look at you!"
• "You are too fat"
• "YOU come to a girl like ME? Don't you have eyes in your head?"
• "Sorry, I just talk to pretty men"
• "My life is too complicated right now."
• "Is here any nest where jerks like you come out?"
• "You are too skinny"
• "I just split up. I need some time out"
• "I am a lesbian"
  "Sorry, mate, I am gay"
• "You men suck"
• "You wish"
• "I don't date idiots"
• "I don't date guys like you"
• "You're so ugly"
• "One more word and I call security"
• "I hate men"
• "I can't stand men like you"
• ...

All the above statements can be accompanied by gestures and facial expressions and emotional flows. Realize they are just gestures/emotional flows. Be prepared to see/feel them and prepare yourself not to become the effect of them.

• Judging you disgusted from head to toe
• Shaking her head
• Making a disgusted face
• Making a funny face (= you are an idiot)
• Sending you away with a hand movement
• Showing her palm (= stop)
• Showing you her middle finger
• "Sending" you a "being disgusted" flow
• "Sending" you a "don't want you near" flow
• "Sending" you a "bad luck wish" flow
• Tipping her head with her forefinger (= you are an idiot)
• Blowing cigarette smoke into your face
• Wetting you with her drink on purpose
• Showing you her tongue disgustingly
• Making invalidating/devaluing noises
• Running off to her friends and telling what an idiot you are and laughing at you
• ...

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How to make acquaintance with an unfamiliar woman or man? It’s a perpetual problem. The article of the onlinedatingtip.com offers a few tips for people who are looking for their partner, how to attract the picked “victim’s” attention…

Walking in the midtown may become an adventure


Take a walk in the city center on a Saturday afternoon. Disguise yourself as a tourist and take a camera with you. If you don’t have one, borrow or buy a cheap disposable camera. If you catch sight of somebody you like turn to her and ask her to take a photo of you in front of a show-place but in a way that she’ll take the photo of you and not the background. Carry on and ask her if you could take a picture of her. This way you create an opportunity for a conversation. It might turn out that she is also alone and offers you to be your guide. The camera method has another advantage: it urges you to visit romantic places, museums, parks, where lots of singles spend their weekend afternoons. According to a professional photographer he is always successful in making interesting acquaintances if he has his camera with him. At the age of modern automatic cameras you don’t have to be a professional: take a snapshot of somebody and flirt with her.

Flirting at the university

You can attend either the lectures at the university or only the canteen, you’ll be able to flirt. University is a good place for flirting, because of the fact that a number of people gather there. If you catch sight of someone who interests you, simply ask her what lectures she attends. “Which year are you in? Do you have a determinate plan or do you study for the sake of entertainment?” The repertory of questions is infinite. You can recommend that you take a coffee break or go to library together. You may tell her how splendid books you have at home and ask her if she feels like looking at them.

Flirt while waiting line

The situation is advantageous because the ones in front of and behind you are waiting to see the same play, movie or exhibition as you. So the topic of the conversation is given. For example if you are waiting outside the movies you can turn to the lucky ones like this: “Have you heard what the director did at the premier?” At the end you’ll be sitting next to your new acquaintance at eat popcorn from the same bag.

Flirt in a cafe

At the table next to yours a pretty woman is reading her newspaper. Ask her if there’s something interesting in it. Her answer will probably be negative, for which you may reply: “Don’t you think that there should be a paper in which there are only good pieces of news?” This strategy can be applied on the way around as well, you can read out the titles or a few lines of the editorial to the lonely man sitting at the next table. Go to the café on Sunday mornings, it’s a convenient time to talk about life’s things.

Flirt in the park

You’re in a beautiful park, there are trees and birds, light and shade around you’re solving cross-words sitting on a bench. When you look up cogitatively you observe a handsome man rubbernecking on the other half of the bench. Mutter silently: “Hm … Aztecan sun-god … seven letters down.” Then turn directly to the attractive stranger: “Don’t you happen to know what the name of the Aztecan sun-god might be? Seven letters.” After you excited his curiosity he’ll approach you and your cross-words. You’re in for it. It’s going to be a pleasant afternoon. To your next walk in the park take some bird seeds with you. If you catch sight of a pretty passer-by, sprinkle some seeds toward her. Birds will troop around her, that’s for sure. Walk to her with an innocent face and address her: “It seems birds like you … And I know why!” Smile at her and introduce yourself to her. This is also a successful method!

If you go to the museum…

…don’t forget to visit the gift-shop or the restaurant of the museum. You can do other things as well in a museum than watching exhibition cases. Some people go there to have coffee. Why don’t you follow their example? It’s easy to enter upon a conversation. Topics seem to offer themselves: you can converse on the exhibits, artists, the building of the museum. Don’t forget about the gift-shop: it’s easy to make new friends among the many bric-a-bracs.

Exploit the intervals

If you go to theater, opera, to your favorite actor’s performance, don’t stay at your place during the intervals, but go to the lounge for a drink or a cake. If the audience are squeezing toward the buffet, step forward and take part in the conversation. The topic will probably be on today’s play or previous plays. Test your communicative skills and narrate a few stories about the lives of the scenic heroes: it’s possible that by the end of the play you’ll have shared the cheerful atmosphere of the play with your own hero/heroine.

The best place at a party is by the bar or the buffet

Why? Because people looking for some food or drink come and go all the time. If the clambake is held in a hotel you can relocate your residence next to the cloakroom, because the circulation is reasonable there as well: people longing for some fresh air or fleeting the tumult or even looking for love – it’s possible that you make new friends there. If you encounter some boring woman leave her with some polite excuse and find another busy place. Perhaps you should look around one more time before. Remember, you have decided to get to know as many people as possible tonight! If you encounter somebody you find attractive smile at her and ask her: “Wouldn’t you like to continue this conversation during dinner on Tuesday?” observe what type you deal with, what may interest her, use your illusions to suggest something that she will presumably accept. Dancing marathon? Marathon race? Old horror movies? Your attentiveness and politeness will surely attract your new acquaintance’s attention and curiosity and will be all afire with the desire to see you again. With your empressement and cordiality you will attract people wherever you may be.

Eat at the dining car if you’re traveling on a train

You can pack food for the trip and mumble on it alone, but why don’t you visit the dining car? Traveling may seem shorter there and you’ll have a great time, especially if you encounter interesting people. Perhaps your future one-and-only is traveling on exactly this train with you.

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Candlelight Wedding Chapel is a well-known las Vegas entity that has been featured in a country music video by Diamond Rio. Howie Mandel married here, and John Tesh renewed vows with his wife. This las Vegas wedding chapel has a lot to offer clients from around the world and enjoys a brisk business near the financial district. Close to business and entertainment, this longtime chapel has the experience and credentials to provide you and your beloved with a memorable and enjoyable visit. You don’t have to wonder whether they can carry it off or the day will be ruined. Put your wedding into the staff’s capable hands and then relax.

Set on a lovely, well-kept piece of land, the Candlelight Chapel attracts visitors and prospective couples who are considering marriage due to its well-known reputation and the natural features that make this chapel popular to locals and visitors alike.

When you purchase an affordable wedding package, you can bring along family, friends, and other guests to take part in your exchange of vows. Prices range from $199 to $499 and include a bevy of services. The lowest fee covers the chapel rental, marriage certificate holder, CD music, several photos, and carnation flowers. The $299 package upgrades flowers to roses and adds more photos. You also can get a video of the ceremony. For $399 you get a rose cascade arrangement, a professional organist, and a candle-lighting ceremony. The $499 price adds a unity candle, wedding garter, and a leather-bound wedding album.

Additional amenities include the option of ordering a cake or other pastries, a helicopter ride, and Elvis weddings. But the prices do not cover the minister’s fee or the chauffeur’s gratuity. The chapel takes pleasure in treating guests like royalty to ensure their wedding day is as special as they had hoped it would be. Several newlyweds contacted the Candlelight Chapel within a matter of days, months, or weeks to emphasize how happy they were with the service that was provided and with the overall outcome of their special celebration.

You can join the ranks of civilians and everyday people alike by leaning more about what this romantic little chapel has to offer and possibly choosing to hold your own service here. From the limo driver, to the minister, to the coordinator who helps you pull it all together, everyone makes it their business and their duty to ensure that your dreams come true when you choose the Candlelight for your wedding festivities.

Find out ahead of time what you can afford to pay so there will be no surprises afterward. You can visit this chapel online at Candlelight Wedding Chapel.

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Thinking of choosing Las Vegas for your wedding destination? Here are the Top 5 reasons to get married in Las Vegas, with some simple advice.

Top Five Reasons To Get Married In Las VegasBy Sarah Steinberg, Special to LasVegasWeddings.com

Everyone knows about the lure and magic of getting married in Las Vegas. It usually includes an impromptu weekend trip to the City of Sin where the possibilities for a different kind of wedding are endless. Whether it's getting married by Elvis, or staying in the car and having a drive-through ceremony, there are many upsides to getting married in Vegas. It's all about location and in Vegas you can't go wrong.

1. The themed wedding is always a blast. The kitsch factor is high and the weddings themselves, unusual to say the least. Why go for the run-of-the mill traditional wedding when you can go The Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapel? The most popular wedding package at The Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapel is "Elvis Blue Hawaii," where Elvis performs the ceremony and sings hit songs. While this should come as no surprise, there are plenty of other packages, equally as entertaining, to choose from. King Tut will be your Minister if you choose the Egyptian theme. Merlin the Magician will marry you should you choose the Camelot package. If you're in the mood for something a bit more racy, you can opt for the Gangster wedding and be united in wedded bliss by the Godfather. The Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapel has thirty packages to choose from.

2. Getting married on the Las Vegas strip can save you a lot of money if you're looking for a bargain. This way, everybody wins wedding packages starting as low as $40, you can't lose…only at the Casino. On the website www.lvgardenoflove.com, a simple, no-frills wedding goes for $40 and the prices go up from there, the more lavish the affair. Prices are competitive so you can find many other good deals around town.

3. If money isn't an object, you can still have the unique kind of wedding that only Vegas has to offer; one that is more upscale and still maintains that unique Las Vegas flavor. Weddings Las Vegas offers many kinds of weddings; from various Elvis packages to ceremonies conducted in beautiful, natural locales. These natural settings are some of the best kept secrets in the Las Vegas area. If you're in the mood to be serenaded by dueling Elvis's, great! If not, and you'd prefer something a tad more traditional, yet still adventurous, you can make it happen at one of the beautiful local national parks such as Red Rock Canyon and The Valley of Fire. If you want to venture out a bit further, your wedding can take place in the Grand Canyon. Weddings Las Vegas offers special packages for weddings that take place in both The Valley of Fire and Grand Canyon. These special packages include a helicopter ride to locations atop these beautiful natural creations for a once-in-a lifetime experience.

4. Another good reason to choose Las Vegas as your wedding destination: Las Vegas is an adult playground that is open 24/7. The sky's the limit for pre-wedding parties; bachelorette and bachelor parties. If you're coming in from the Midwest, Vegas is such a feast for the eyes it will probably stop you dead in your tracks. It's all here, from tame to raunchy, and it's all within your reach.

5. Ah, the memories! Where else in the world can you find such a variety of weddings to choose from? Whether you want your wedding to be campy or classy, whether you choose to include a helicopter ride or a rollercoaster ride, your Las Vegas wedding can't help but be a fabulous and fun experience! If you get married by King Tut or atop the Grand Canyon, you are sure to have great stories for the grandkids!

Visit http://www.get-married-in-vegas.com/ or http://www.lasvegasweddings.com for the best selection of Las Vegas Wedding Chapels and More! Or Call 1-800-327-VOWS (8697).

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Have you ever wondered if the way you act makes women cringe? Have you ever worried that your behavior might be making them run in the other direction?

Just as women are attracted to certain archetypal men, there are other types of men that women go out of their way to avoid. And this is especially true during the early stages of a relationship, when a woman is trying to gauge a man's personality.

Below are eight types of guys that women consistently stay away from. I have compiled this list from conversations I've had with numerous women regarding the behaviors they dislike in men.
But don't worry if you recognize some of the following traits in yourself -- most of them aren't deal-breakers.


The idea here is not to change your personality, but rather to keep certain female-unfriendly behaviors in check. Read on to find out what women dislike, so you'll be able to make a better impression next time around.

1. The Needy Guy

He is overly emotional and shares all his feelings with her right away. The Needy Guy also doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships.

Why he is so unappealing: Confidence and independence are very sexy traits in a man -- insecurity and dependence are not. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. So if you are always leaning on her -- especially in the early stages of a relationship -- she might doubt your ability to do this. And since women tend to come into relationships with all sorts of insecurities, she won't want to deal with yours as well as her own.

What to do if you're that guy: Timing is everything, so you just need to keep your feelings in check at the beginning of the relationship. Try to hold off on sharing all your feelings or divulging your insecurities. Once you are far enough along in the relationship, you can share as much as you want. By that point, she'll appreciate knowing what's on your mind.

2. The Predictable Guy

Women don't like the Predictable Guy because they know exactly how he'll react to everything. He follows formulas and never wants to do anything differently. For example, he'd never surprise a woman by spontaneously taking her out for the night.

Why he is so unappealing: Women look for a certain amount of unpredictability in a man -- they want a free spirit. This is why some women seem to be drawn to the notorious "bad boy." It's not that they are drawn to his badness exactly, but rather to his unpredictability.

How to avoid being predictable, arrogant, boorish, and more...

What to do if you're that guy: You don't have to be "bad" or a completely free spirit to win her over. But try to mix things up -- particularly at the beginning of a relationship. Call her and tell her you want to go to the countryside for the day, or for an impromptu meal. After she gets to know you, she won't mind as much if you slip back into your routine a bit. But don't forget to continue to surprise her once in a while -- doing so will keep the relationship fresh.

3. The Arrogant Guy

He has a huge ego and he's condescending. He is also rude -- not necessarily to her, but to anyone he perceives as beneath him. And that's just as bad as being rude directly to her.

Why he is so unappealing: A woman often looks at how a man treats other people to assess his personality. So even though you might be nice to her on a date, she'll be paying attention to how you act with other people too.

What to do if you're that guy: No woman wants to be talked down to, so I shouldn't have to tell you to shed the ego when you are dealing with her directly. But in order to really impress her, you need to treat everyone around you with a certain amount of respect -- because she'll be watching.

4. The Boorish Guy

The Boorish Guy doesn't try to hide the fact that he's checking out other women while in her presence; he flirts with the waitress and he even goes as far as to brag about his past conquests. Overall, he lacks respect for women.

Why he is so unappealing: Not only is this type of behavior infuriating, it can also be bad for a woman's self-esteem. If you act like this when you are first getting to know a woman, you won't stand a chance.

What to do if you're that guy: If you can't curb this kind of behavior permanently, then you at least have to keep it in check when making a first impression. Keep your flirting and wandering eyes at bay -- and maybe eventually it'll become a habit. Because, truthfully, if you introduce this kind of behavior into a relationship at any point, she won't be pleased.

5. The Cheap Guy

He invites a woman to dinner and then subtly suggests they go Dutch. He never splurges to buy her flowers and he always opts for the cheapest wine. He makes her feel like they're on a tight budget from the very first date.

Why he is so unappealing: Your first few dates should always be carefree; the words "saving" and "budget" shouldn't come up. If she spends the first date picturing a lifetime of penny-pinching with you, you're out of luck.

What to do if you're that guy: Loosen up the purse strings a little when you're courting a woman. You don't need to spend a fortune to make a good impression, but you do need to make her feel like she's special. Flowers are a nice touch once in a while.

Don't argue all the time, act holier-than-thou or talk trash about women if you want a second date...

6. The Arguer

This type of guy turns every conversation into an argument. When he takes a woman out, he makes her feel like she's in debate class rather than on a date. And in doing so, he makes her feel defensive and self-conscious.

Why he is so unappealing: A date should be a pleasant experience, but if she's on the defensive the whole time, she will not be enjoying herself. Remember this: Constant arguing and debating is a stress -- and you certainly don't want her to associate you with a stressful experience.

What to do if you're that guy: Most importantly, relax. If you are this type of guy, you probably revert to debating because you are nervous or unsure of what to say. So before the date, brainstorm conversation topics and questions you can ask her. That way, you won't be as likely to revert to arguing during lulls in the conversation.

7. The Self-Righteous Guy

This guy is very judgmental of others. He probably doesn't drink or smoke, and he doesn't hesitate to tell others to follow suit. From the very first date, he'll preach to a woman, telling her she shouldn't drink wine or get dessert.

Why he is so unappealing: No one wants to be judged, especially on a date. She'll just find it annoying and rude.

What to do if you're that guy: You can preach a little once you are actually in a relationship. But until that point, her drinking, smoking and dessert-eating habits are none of your business.

8. The Misogynist

This guy makes no secret of his bitterness toward women. On a date, he can't help but exude negativity toward his companion and the entire female gender by making rude and insulting comments.

Why he is so unappealing: This is the only type of behavior on this list that is, in fact, a total deal-breaker. And it's not surprising. What woman do you know that would like to be in a relationship with a man like this?

What to do if you're that guy: You need to reconsider your attitude if you are this type of guy. This type of behavior is not only rude and nasty, it is often the last straw in breaking up a relationship.

Be the amazing guy

Don't stress out too much if you see yourself on the list above. But do remember this: These are behaviors that women look out for at the beginning of a relationship. So if you want to put your best foot forward and make a good impression, study the list and make sure to keep these female-unfriendly behaviors to a minimum.

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