Ever sit at a bar and look around, and notice that some guys just have that innate indescribable characteristic – that charm that attracts woman to them. I hate to burst your bubble the truth is - whether those guys are conscious of it or not, they are utilizing some very simple tactics to attract the opposite sex.

Some of the top social psychologists from all over the country have complied data that says up to 80% of interpersonal attraction is non-verbal. What they mean is that the battle isn’t finding the right thing to say, or the perfect pick up line - it’s all in the subtle idiosyncrasies that we as humans use to communicate daily with other humans – with even being aware of it. Scientists have confirmed that the battle in the bar, or the nightclub is won with body language. The editors at PLEASURELOUNGE.NET have compiled the TOP 5 ways to seduce any woman in under 60 Seconds.


1. POSTURE

Regardless of how tall, or how buff someone may be - the guy with anatomically correct and a powerful posture gives off the vibe that he is confident and important. Let’s face it, we all want to date attractive women, but we must also realize that attractive woman are hit on all the time. That’s why you have to stand out, and having a commanding and powerful posture will definitely help. There are 3 basic rules of a good powerful posture

1. Imagine a string attached to the top of your head, and then imagine someone pulled the string straight up towards the sky. This should slightly elongate the neck and straighten the back.

2. Shoulders should be slightly pulled back to reveal an open and broad chest. Too much of this and then you’ll give off the vibe that you are too cocky and probably just compensating for something…small. A broad and open chest shows that one is unafraid of the environment around them, and ready for anything that may come their way.

3. Hands - our funny five fingered extremities that are so vital to our survival, but in nerve-racking situations always run for cover in a pocket. Your hands should be free and relaxed. Hold a drink or cigarette if you must, but simply keeping your hands calm goes a very long way - The worst thing a guy can be is be the bar table drummer.

2. EYE CONTACT

Various studies on the brain have shown a massive increase in brain activity when we look directly into another persons eyes. It all goes back to Darwin and the survival of the fittest. Eyes aren’t only used to help us navigate our environments, our eyes are also how we express ourselves. I’m sure you’ve heard the old adage – Eyes are windows to your soul – I know, sounds cheesy, but in a way it’s true. Pay attention the next time you’re out at a bar and you’ll be surprised. Here are some very important signs to look for.

1. Have you ever walked past a woman whom you catch them for an instant looking at you and as soon as you focus back on them they look away. It’s what I call a “lure.” Whether she knows it or not, she is actually letting you know, through non-verbal communication that she’s interested. Woman have been molded by our society to be the prey, and allow men to be the predators. Next time you see notice that cuttie you thought was blowing you off pull one of these, attack.

2. Another very important factor in gaugeing whether or not she is interested in you is by watching the pupils. I know this sounds very CIA, but when people are attracted to you, their pupils dilate and become larger. Even more interesting is that people are also considered more attractive when their pupils are dilated. Hence, bars always that dim lighted ambiance, and let’s not forget what a couple of drinks can do to your pupils. Eyes are very revealing so pay close attention and you’ll be ahead of the game.

3. STANDING OUT

It’s funny how much you can learn about out mating rituals by observing our good friends in the animal kingdom. Although this next principle varies from specie to specie, every organism that mates is attracted to it’s counter part for certain reasons. For example, the male peacock with brightest and most robust feathers will get more peacock booty. Same goes for the duck, or the rooster with the largest RED thingy. Now I’m not saying go out dressing like Dennis Rodman, but wearing a little flare next time you go out will help you stand out from the crowd. Because let’s face, most clubs you go don’t have the best ratio. It’s usually a bunch of horny guys battling and competing with each other for the same limited resource – the hot single girl. I can’t really tell you what exactly to wear, but I can tell you that no matter how outrageous it is, if you have the balls to wear it, and be confident – you’ll definitely stand out from that sea of douche bags.

4. SMILING

I was very skeptical about this tip until I actually went into the trenches and tried it myself. The principle is really simple – Whenever you enter a room, come in as though you’re the king of the world and that you’re feeling like a million bucks. Studied have shown that in a crowded room, such as a bar, or a club, the people that are most noticed are the one’s who just come in. However, the way most brains work is that if some object is relatively similar to all surrounding objects then that thing will probably go unnoticed. So I took to the streets with some of my fellow PLEASURELOUNGE.NET editors and hit up some local hot spots to see what exactly us guys look like in action, and I have to say, Derek Zoolander would be very threatened at all the Blue Steel wannabees walking in. It was very easy to see how a smile and maybe even a chuckle could make you more desirable in to woman in under 30 seconds.

5. THE FIRST MOVE

This is by far the most important thing every man should know and live by. Even if you have all four of the previous tips perfected, without this you are just not in control. I like to call it the 3 SECOND RULE. Man’s worst enemy in bars and clubs aren’t other men, or bitchy pre-menstrual woman – Man’s worst enemy is himself and his own insecurities. We all have them, and chances are we will always have them. The 3 SECOND RULE was designed to bypass anyone’s insecurity and probably the easiest tip on this list. So with out further adieu – The next time you see a woman you’re attracted to and want to approach, you have exactly 3 seconds to make your move before your insecurities will talk to you out of it. Now I’m not a shrink, and I’m not even going to touch on the subject of what causes insecurity in men and blah blah blah…The truth is I don’t care. Because if you make your move in 3 seconds or less, you never have to let those insecurities affect you. That’s all there is too it. From the very first moment you lay your eyes on that beautiful blonde with perfect breasts and Angelina Jolie lips, you better get your ass in gear because after 3 seconds, I guarantee you that you’ll just another one of those guys, standing up against the bar drooling all over yourself wondering what could have been.

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I, like most of the people tend to prefer free services rather than pay for them. Yet, there are certain services I would prefer paying for. Dating services are one of them.

As an experienced user of online dating services, I have developed methods of evaluating online dating websites. These methods contain various parameters - The number of registered users, the quality of the dating service and many others. By now, in all cases, free dating websites were found less effective than other online dating services.


Think of all the money you have spent on awful dates, think of all the efforts you have wasted on trying to find a date, preparing for a date and trying to cheer yourself up after a bad date. Now, if someone could promise you, you could spare much of this wasted money and effort by paying a few bucks to online dating services, wouldn't you take it in two hands? I would. Unfortunately, no body could promise us anything. But, I truly believe that free dating services are a waste of time.

Free dating services also hold some hidden risks:
First, Nothing is free. If the dating service owners claim that it is free, they would do anything to sell you other stuff from fishy e-books to cheap perfumes. Do you really want it?

Second, Free services are usually being used by crooks and pervert people. Think that anyone would be able to see all your details without having to pay for it or fill in any personal details.

So what should you do? You should find the best dating services website for your needs. In most of the popular online dating services you could sign up for a free trial. That would be the best way to get free dating services. Good Luck.

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Dating after a divorce is tough. Let's face it getting back into dating at any time is a minefield. You don't quite know where to start so here are a few internet dating mistakes and their solutions.

1. Too much too soon

So you have been ploughing through those endless profiles on your internet dating site and have come up with someone who interests you. There has been an exchange of emails. He sounds fun and witty and you begin to look forward to his messages. You find yourself getting up earlier in the morning just to log on whilst you drink your coffee to see if he has sent a response to your latest remarks. During the day you compile witty replies in your head and suggestive lines to throw his way. This has gone on for a couple of weeks and he suddenly asks if he can call you. Your chest expands; you are really excited and arrange a time. Now you are curled up in your favourite chair waiting for the call. Guess what it goes well, the same light banter, his voice is not what you expect but that is OK. You talk for an hour. This becomes a daily ritual which you begin to plan your time around. And then he invites you to dinner.

2. Throwing money at it

It has been a while since someone invited you out to dinner (you may be just starting dating after your divorce). Your immediate thought is what to wear, need my hair done etc. This means that you spend the best part of a week running around with the one thought in your mind "I must get this right". You seem to have disappeared and you feel that you need to invent a new person to go on this date. In order to be that person you have to package yourself in some particular way. There must be some key that you can find, a particular dress, new haircut etc. You believe that you need to make yourself more appealing.

3. Thinking that you know the person

The evening has arrived and you meet at the arranged restaurant (good step, as all the dating advice recommends that you meet in a public place). You are especially nervous and excited but also slightly uncomfortable because the shoes are new and you feel a bit wobbly in them. It is strange you recognise this person but at the same time you don't. The voice you know that but he does not look like the person in the photograph, taller, shorter a bit heavier or gangly something is not as you imagined. Anyway he seems quite at ease but maybe that is just a contrast to how you are feeling. Initially conversation is going well as there are points of contact from your previous conversations but it isn't going anywhere. By the main course you are starting to drink a little too much to fill in the silences. Your feet really hurt now and you are taking surreptitious glances at your watch - only 9 o'clock. No dessert thanks and by the way you have an early start in the office tomorrow so you have to go soon. Can't think of anything but getting out of the shoes. Yes it was good, do call me.

4. Fantasy - it's only in your head

Next day or later in the week, the emails/calls are still coming and you continue to respond. It's a though you have never met and you can get on with the easy going repartee that has become almost a habit. In your mind he is something you want him to be, well not quite but you can have yourself believe that he is whilst you exchange messages and late night calls. You are starting to develop a whole life in your head around this person, you imagine where you can live with him, what you will do, holidays together in fact everything you ever want with someone. This is taking up a lot of head space but that is enjoyable in itself, you feel connected to someone if only in your mind.

5. Not paying attention to the signals

A week or so more and you are becoming slightly irritated by the emails and are not responding quite so readily. But he asks you if you want to come out for another evening and that heart leaps to your throat again. You agree even though there is a vague memory of discomfort from the first meeting. Well you remind yourself that all the dating advice recommends that it is about getting to know someone. I can't expect to feel comfortable about everything immediately. He is suggesting dinner again, you don't really want to but you are not sure what you want to do so you go along with it. You had arranged to see a girl-friend that night but you tell her you can't make it, she seems a bit put-out but you put that thought aside.

The second evening seems very long.

Too much too soon - It is so tempting to put all your focus on one person at a time when you are looking to date on the internet. But it is important to remember that not only are all those people out there looking at numerous people at any one time but you could be too. If you put most of your time and energy into any one contact at a very early stage this means that you cannot scout, screen and sort other possible people.

Dating Advice: Don't make a big investment emotionally in any relationship without solid foundations.

Throwing money at it - Recent research has revealed that online daters are spending up to Ł1,500 a month taking out people who they realise, after the first 15 minutes are not for them. (Independent, June 2005) Remember be authentic, the packaging is only that and is not who you are. Meeting for a cup of coffee or a drink will give you enough time to assess whether this person is someone you want to know better.

Dating Advice: Packaging is not the answer, be clear about who you are, what you want in a relationship and set about finding it in a considered way.

Thinking you know this person - We can easily be seduced by email conversations and late night telephone calls. Apart from the actual chemistry that is missing in these exchanges there is that part that you know very well yourself, where you just reveal what you want at any given time. If you know what your requirements are in a relationship this will help you assess quite quickly if this person is for you. Most of us allow things to just drift along and are not pro-active in having a plan for ourselves when it comes to relationships.

Dating Advice: How is it we plan for everything except relationships? Take some time to plan what you want in a relationship before you get into a habit or rut with someone.

Fantasy - it's only in your head - It is very easy to live in the fantasy of a relationship even from a very early stage. After all that is why you have signed up on the dating site in the first place - you want a relationship. However, being truthful with yourself is easier if you have a relationship plan. Then you can ask yourself, from the information you have so far, does this person tick some of my boxes. If so then you can continue to find out more about them whilst finding out about other people at the same time. Projecting onto any one person, especially at a very early stage, all you hopes and dreams is likely to bring you some amount of pain and heartache when you find this isn't going to work out.

Dating Advice: Spread the emotional load by giving your attention to a number of people, it helps deal with the ups and downs of the dating cycle if you are not exclusive right from the start.

Not paying enough attention to the signals - it is amazing how quickly we can get ourselves into habits and relationships, however new, are one of those areas. We all like attention and contact with people but what about the rest of your life, those friends who have been around for you, your family. Anyone who might be for you will, you hope, want to share life with a person who has a balanced life and that includes all the other activities and people in your life. Straining towards exclusivity at a very early stage and throwing all your time and attention towards the relationship can be a disaster.

Dating Advice: Get out there and have any dating and relationships fit in with your life as a successful single. Know what your requirements, needs and wants are and look for someone who can meet these.

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This is one of the easiest ways to flirt and let someone know you're interested in them without having to run the risk of getting rejected face to face.

When it comes to flirting, you can get your point across very easily just using your eyes. Take a moment and watch people who are in love. See how they look at each other - they stare directly into each other's eyes for extended periods of time.

Look at mere friends. See their eyes? They seem to flit back and forth, making eye contact, but never extended eye contact.

What do I mean by extended eye contact?

Holding someone's gaze for 1-2 seconds and looking deep into their eyes during that time. I realize that couples may look at each other in this way for longer periods of time, but remember they are ALLOWED to do this - they are a couple. For our purposes, you are just flirting.

If you were to try and stare into some girl's eyes for long periods of time (especially if you don't know her), she will think that you're staring at her and she'll think that you're strange, as you're making her feel uncomfortable.

The goal here is to make eye contact with her, and to hold her attention by looking straight into her eyes for a couple of seconds so that she gets the idea that you're interested in her.

Be sure to smile, or to at least have a partial smile on your face as you do this. If you stare at her like this with a stone face, you'll freak her out.

She'll either think that you're mad at her, or that you're just some type of psycho (both are bad).

If she seems to quickly look away, she is either playing hard to get, or she doesn't have an interest in you. Either way, if you feel that she's worth the effort, you will probably have to pursue some decent conversation with her.

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Flirting in an online dating service is pretty much just the same as it is in the offline world, except for a few great points, when you are flirting online you can do it with much more confidence and you do not have to worry about things like stuttering or saying something silly because you type everything you say and you can take as long as you need to reply to something.

Here are a few tips for flirting online:

Be pleasant. Try to be as pleasant as you can about everything you say, you aren't going to make a friend by saying a bunch of negative comments and making remarks about something in an unpleasant manner, just be pleasant when you talk with someone. If you feel as though you really want to say something unpleasant, just don't say anything at all, you know the saying "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all", well it's true, if you need to you can just say that you would like to change the subject of conversation.

Listen to the other person. When you are talking with someone, you should not hold the entire conversation yourself, let the other person put their opinions and views across and make sure they know that you are listening. It can be very frustrating when you say something and the person you are talking to completely ignores your comment, don't make others feel like that and they will like you more for it.

Compliment. Compliments can be very powerful for letting someone know that you like them and enjoy talking with them, try to compliment the person you are talking to about things like their profile picture, comments they make or anything that you feel deserves one.

Be fun. Make the conversation fun for both you and the other person, you can do this with simple little things like making short jokes or talking about funny things, just don't let the conversation become to serious until either you both need to talk about something serious. When you first meet someone it would be best to try and keep the conversations fun and light hearted.

Follow up. When you have a good conversation with someone and you would like to talk to them again, it is a great idea to send them an email or a message thanking them for the chat and to ask if they would like to chat again sometime, if they do want to, you should also initiate the next chat as this will show them that you are interested.

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Knowing when a woman is flirting is an important skill for all men to learn. If you can tell when a woman is flirting with you, it'll make it easy build rapport and attraction.

But for some men, it's hard to figure out when a woman is flirting and when she is trying to be polite. In other words, these guys have trouble picking up on the subtle flirting cues which all women give off.

In order to increase your chances of getting her number and going on a date, you have to know when a woman is flirting during your conversation. Today, I'll cover three ways that can tell when a woman is showing signs of flirting.

First Sign of Flirting- She comes over and initiates a conversation with you

The first sign that a woman is trying to flirt is if she approaches you and strikes up a conversation. Most of the time, a woman will never start a conversation with a guy. As a result, you can tell when one is trying to flirt if she suddenly walks up to you and starts talking.

However there are a few girls who just like to talk. So if a woman initiates a conversation, she might not be trying to flirt.

Typically she'll do this by asking you open ended questions and trying to get you to talk more about yourself. Basically she's doing this with the intention of getting you to continue the conversation and getting to know her more intimately.

Second Sign of Flirting - She's laughs at your jokes and loves listening to you

When a woman seems to hang on to every word and laughs at your jokes, she's demonstrating a sign of attraction. Usually you can tell when a woman is flirting by how she responds to your conversational skills. In fact, we tend to classify the term 'hitting it off' as when two people have chemistry during a conversation.

So if she likes talking to you and seems to enjoy your conversation, then you're probably receiving a subtle message that she wants to "know you better".

Third Sign of Flirting - She gives you tons of compliments

Usually most women will wait for a guy to compliment them before saying anything nice in return. This is due to the fact that they're used to being pursued by men and made to feel like queens.

So a when a woman compliments you, she's giving an indication that she is interested and attracted to you.

All three of these signs of flirting suggest the fact that women can be just as forward with indicators of attraction. When you she flirts with you, it means she wants you to flirt back and take the next step from your conversation. This means she could want you to get her number, set up a date or even kiss her. So pay close attention because you don't want to miss any of these flirting signs.

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How to flirt with girls is no easy task. It if was, you would not be reading this right now, you'd already know how to do it... Let's take a deeper look into how to flirt with girls the "right way."

Look, I work with tons of guys and I know that most of them no absolutely nothing when it comes down to flirting with girls. Either they overdo it and come off like a horse's butt, or they don't do enough of it and fail to create that sexual tension. These guys are always referred to as the "nice guy" and have many girl "friends" and experience little to no romance.

If you're going to have any success in flirting with girls, you need to relax! Yes, I said you need to relax and not be so uptight. Girls sense when you're too uptight and they will lose interest faster than you can say your next word. You don't have to be a brain surgeon to get this!

When you feel uptight, just take a look into her eye and picture her falling asleep. It does sound weird to think that, I know but when you see her beautiful face falling asleep snoring like an old lady she tends to not look so important anymore. What I'm trying to do here is to get you to realize that she's not all that important to you. So why are you going to flip out in her presence?

Being a flirt means being playful. There's a lot of stuff out there about the importance of being "cocky." Honestly that idea is well played out. All the guys that I've talked to tell me the exact same thing:

"When I get cocky with my girl, she loses interest. I always look like a jerk!"

You see. That's I'm not telling you to act cocky. The way to be is playful. Just teasing her is great. Treat her with humor, like she's some nerd in high school or something. Bust on her when she does something dumb. Just be sure to smile when you do this or you'll really be seen as a jerk.

Here's one obvious tip... never under any circumstance make fun of the way she looks. Compliment her on her look, but never joke about it. Just joke with her on her behavior - that's when the fun starts, but stay away from any negative comments on her appearance.

The killer combination, as I like to call it, is to be playful right along with being a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair, help her carry things, giver her help with her jacked, all of those little things... do them!

Be as nice and courteous as possible to her. Just mix it in with the teasing and playful combo. Having both of these qualities in the mix will allow you to be the gentleman most girls want. Without that you're just her friend, the nice guy. No thanks!

You come out the big winner by showing her that you're fun and a gentleman. It's what's known as push and pull. I go into more details in my book as to how to get her attention and how to flirt with girls properly. For now, just remember that when you tease her you push her away (mentally), then when you are a gentleman you pull her towards you. This creates the sexual tension you're looking for.

As I mentioned, sexual tension is created when you push and pull your girl. To have success flirting with girls means that you know how to create tension. You know when to kick it up, and to bring it down, when to drop the whole thing all together. It takes time to master it and just focus on these principles to speed up the process.

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Romance can stagnate. There are those that think that because you are in love you shouldn't have to work at love. That's not at all true. You must keep love alive by being kind to each other, being honest with each other, compromising, trying something new and adventurous and just being romantic. Here are ten fast ways to reignite a romance that has grown somewhat stale.

Part of the reason a romance stagnates is because you know each other too well, you've become too predictable to each other. Predicable translates into boring.

Perhaps the most common complaint women express about their husbands and long term partners is that they're never spontaneous.

"I wasn't going to turn around and come back when I remembered it was your birthday. I would have wasted my plane ticket."

Can you imagine, however, if you showed up at the door with a dozen roses and a bottle of shampoo when you were supposed to be at the other end of the state in a business meeting?

What wonderful spontaneity and what a wonderful reaction you'd get to "I couldn't go without celebrating your birthday with you." What love and romance that would convey.

So, yes, spontaneity is the first of the 10 fast ways to reignite romance.

The second way to reignite your stagnating romance is to talk to each other, to listen to each other, and to do things together that make you laugh. Don't hide your feelings - open up and trust each other.

Love notes reignite romance as well. Make a path of love notes - perhaps a poem of sticky notes - down the hall and into the bedroom - that says how much you love her.

The fourth of the 10 fast ways to reignite romance is to compliment your partner. Say nice things about her or him to others within hearing of your partner.

Don't paw her or him when others around but be affectionate. It's sweet to see elderly couples holding hands walking down the street.

Be responsive to their needs. Offer to be the one to run to the store when they're the one that wants the ice cream. Or better yet, take her or him to the Dairy Queen for a sundae.

Show your partner respect. Don't belittle them or their opinions and ideas just because they don't agree with yours.

Reignite romance by doing something special, some little thing you know they would like to do. Give up your night in front of the game for a walk by the lake.

Number eight of the ten fast ways to reignite romance is to not react with anger when your partner says something particularly nasty in the heat of an argument.

Wait until things cool off and then calmly and rationally explain why it angered and hurt you. You're probably going to get an apology as well as some insight into some of your annoying habits as well.

Another way to reignite romance is to take responsibility for yourself. Your partner is not responsible for your health or your happiness. Quit the cigarettes, get out and exercise and find creative and recreational outlets with other than your partner once in a while so she or he can feel free to do the same.

The last of the 10 fast ways to reignite romance is to let yourself feel free to communicate without evasion or deception, or holding back. Trust your partner and show her or him that you do. That will reignite romance.

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Unless you've lived in a cave, then you've probably noticed the singles scene has changed A LOT over the past couple of years. In fact, there has been a sudden explosion of new and interesting ways to meet women.

For instance, in the past you had to leave your house to meet a woman. But now you can use technology to contact hundreds of interesting women while sitting in a room. In essence, you can use the power of your computer to literally shop for a woman.

As a result, the late 2000's has ushered in an era where meeting and dating women can conveniently fit into ANY guy's schedule. In this article, I'll outline 4 ways you can use modern technology and trends to locate women in your area.

Let's get started...

1- Online Dating

I'll be honest when I say online dating has become THE way to meet women. In fact, it has become a socially acceptable way to meet women. According to a recent survey, 70% of singles in America have tried online dating at one point in their lives.

So you're missing out on a golden opportunity if you DON'T use online dating to meet women.

Now the important thing to remember about online dating is it favors guys who are proactive. In other words, you have to make an effort to contact and follow-up with women on these websites.

Since there is a lot competition from other guys on online dating sites, you have to do everything you can to stand out from the crowd.

2- Speed Dating

Speed dating has become a really popular way for busy people to meet.

It works like this...

An organization or business arranges an equal number of men and women to meet and privately talk with another for 7-8 minutes. Then when the time is up, you move on and start talking with another girl.

Then once the event is over, you evaluate each woman and decide if you want to meet her again. If she decides the same thing about you, the organization will give you each other's contact information.

The object of speed dating is to allow you to have multiple conversations with a large selection of women and quickly determine which ones you want to date.

If you want to take advantage of this type of dating, you have to ensure you make a great first impression with every woman you meet. So you have to learn how to be confident, funny and interesting.

3- Social Networks

Social networking is a trend which has gained a lot of popularity during the past few years. With these type of sites, you "make friends" with people and connect with others you already know.

What I like about social networking sites is you're able to talk to a woman without being giving off the *desperate* stigma like you would have with an online dating site.

Because these sites are free and filled with lonely guys, you have to stand out from the crowd. In other words, your initial message must be really interesting and unique compared to the emails that OTHER guys send.

4- Seminars

As our society progresses it's become important to expand on our personal and professional knowledge. That's why seminars have become a really popular way to learn in a fun and interesting environment.

In addition to the intellectual benefits, you can also use this place to network and meet women. What's great about seminars is they provide an opportunity for you to talk to a woman who shares a common interest with you. You can easily use this environment to start talking about a topic in which you both find riveting.

All you have to do some research and you could easily find seminars in your area. For instance there are always opportunities to learn about topics like self-improvement, home decoration, finances, nutrition and other special interests.

Now the important thing to remember when meeting ANY woman over these 4 methods is to still use proper conversation skills and seduction techniques. In other words, technology and advances hasn't changed basic human nature...

It's still important to know the right way to date and attract women.

But if you can add these 4 methods to your dating arsenal, you'll be able to develop a large pool of interesting and attractive women you can date!

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Did you know that two out of five single people in the UK now use some kind of on line dating service? That's 40% of all singles! Unfortunately, the percentage of these people who actually find a real romance as a direct result of their site memberships is very low - probably less than 10%.

Why is this? Well, it's true that some sites are better than others; they have more traffic, they are better to navigate; they just 'work' whilst others just don't. But what really matters is how you use a site when you actually sign-up to one. Take my word for it, unless you take the five simple steps that I'm about to outline, you may as well do something more productive with your time than join a singles site. What I'm about to say may sound obvious and rather simplistic, but you'd be surprised at how many people don't bother doing the 'obvious'. So here goes...

1. Create A Great Profile. This is the most important aspect of your dating site experience. Don't just say 'Nice guy seeks nice girl for trips to the cinema' - how boring does that sound? Take the time to say something about yourself, your lifestyle, your interests and the type of person you're hoping to meet. And remember to sound happy, upbeat, fun and confident; if you're miserable about your recent breakup, then keep it to yourself! This isn't the time for modesty; if you think you're pretty darn attractive, then be sure to say so. And humour is a real ice-breaker - if you can make someone laugh, they'll be more likely to want to contact you.

2. Always Upload A Photo. Even if you don't have a very flattering one to hand, you should always post a pic with your profile. Remember, 95% of people on dating sites only search for other members who have bothered to provide a picture of themselves. You want to see what other potential partners look like so it stands to reason that other people will want to know what you look like too. If your photo isn't recent or isn't a great likeness of you, you can always say so in your profile.

3. Be Proactive. Don't just join a site and expect other people to contact you. Make sure you regularly search the database for people with whom you might be compatible and when you find someone you like the look or sound of, write to them immediately and tell them why you think you might be a good fit.

4. Write Great Emails. OK, you've joined a dating site, you've searched for other members who fall within your specified categories, and you've been presented with a page of matching profiles. You're eager to fire off a few emails...but what on earth do you say in them? Re-read the paragraph above about creating a great profile and apply the same rules to the first email that you send to another member. If it looks like you can't be bothered to say much or that you're sending the same one line message to several people, then they probably wont bother to reply. Tell that person a little about who you are and why you think you might both be compatible - respond directly to what you've read in that person's profile - sound interested and interesting and you'll get an email by return - sound boring and downbeat and you'll just be ignored.

5. Check Back With The Site. There are two reasons why you should do this as often as possible. The most obvious one is to keep up to speed with who has joined since you last logged-on; that special someone might have signed-up since you last visited the site so don't miss out. However, what most people don't realise is that when you log-in to a dating site, your profile moves up the listings on the internal search engine which means that you are more likely to be spotted and subsequently contacted by other people. Don't be a stranger to the site you've joined and I recommend that you visit the site at least once a day during the lifetime of your membership.

So there you have it - 5 easy ways to make your chosen dating site work for YOU. Have fun and happy hunting!

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For anyone who is new to the world of online dating, things could get a little confusing. Online dating differs from real life dating in many ways. One of the key differences is that with online dating, all of the action is done via the internet.

Individuals or groups of people who want to meet other people for social purposes, romantic attachments, or just to make new friends can do so through the means of online dating services.

This is a new, fun, and exciting way to meet people. Almost everyone is getting in on the action when it comes to online dating services. It has been assessed that approximately 1out of 5 Americans participate in an online dating service.

There are numerous online dating services that cater to all types of people. Individuals ranging in: age, interests, and that come from different demographics, and various walks of life.

The numbers of people who are participating in online dating services are on the rise. More than ever young people nowadays are using this method, as their main route to meet people. They see nothing shameful about this way of socializing. Plus, the anonymity that online dating services provide, they also find appealing.

After all, participants of online dating services don't have to meet the individuals they communicate with online in person. Not until they feel they've achieve some level of trust, and comfort with the other person. In the end, a participant always has the choice to meet or not to meet.

The more reliable online dating services are those that require memberships from participants. They have a given set of requirements that must be met before anybody is allowed to participate. This allows the online dating service website to accept or reject aspiring members. Some of these online dating services are not free. They charge a monthly fee for the services they offer.

Subscribers to online dating services are asked to create a profile which contains a picture of the subscriber and other useful information. This is where the subscribers get to post some basic personal information like interests, hobbies, and the description of the type of persons they'd want to connect with. The great thing about this is the subscribers have a chance to express themselves, and show their personality through their profiles. Also, they can specify exactly what they are looking for.

The subscribers are then matched with fellow subscribers who match their descriptions. Afterwards, it is up to the subscribers to pursue the connection with the other subscribers that they've been matched with.

This way of self advertising on an online dating service doesn't differ much from a personal, which basically operates on the same principle. These are the little pop-ups that appear on a lot of websites on the internet. It basically relays basic personal information, interests, quotes, a picture, and contact email of the person who has posted the personal. Any interested party can then contact that person.

The great thing about online dating services is that participants get to choose the persons they're going to communicate with. Plus, they get to read their profiles ahead of time, so they'd pretty much have an idea about what type of a person they are dealing with, before they make contact.

The downside to online dating services is that not everyone tells the truth on their profiles! Some married individuals have been known to lie about their marital status online. This has been an ongoing problem that has plagued the online dating service world since the beginning of its inception.

But a lot of online dating services are now enforcing more stringent rules to crackdown on this problem. Some are even doing background checks to make sure aspiring subscribers don't have a criminal record. This adds to the safety of the members of the online dating community.

The availability of online dating services makes this an appealing option for anyone who is looking to meet new people. Now, with the popularity of online dating services, the interactions people can have are not only limited to their set of friends, acquaintances, and co-workers anymore.

It is so easy to partake in an online dating service. Anyone who has access to the internet can do so. Now, with just a simple click of a button any individual can be launched into the new and exciting world of online dating.

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Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a powerful tool in many areas, from therapy, to sales, to self-improvement. As a powerful tool of influence, many man have asked how it can be applied to seducing women. It can be applied in simple ways with limited effect, or it can be used to make a woman desire you completely. Here is how to use NLP to seduce women

1. Positive use of language

A simple but effective use of NLP is to make sure you never use negative language. Saying "today wasn't amazing, thinks didn't go as perfectly as I'd imagined" is so much better to hear than "today was awful, things went terribly". Just simply using positive words rather than negative words allows you to convey the same information without affecting the mood.

2. Pacing and leading

If she is speaking negatively, first pace it by agreeing and expanding on it, but then take charge and turn things positive by changing the subject or positively reframing the negative event. Pacing and leading also applies to energy and state. If she is cold with you, don't be loving with her, instead match her coldness and then slowly lead her into being seductive by slowly becoming seductive yourself. The same applies to if she is tired or bored, pace and then lead.

3. Mirroring and matching

When people spend a lot of time together, they tend to share mannerisms, reactions, vocabulary, and tone and speed of speech. You can see this with good friends, couples, and relatives. If you match and mirror someone, they will feel a lot more comfortable and relaxed with you and like they have known you longer. Do this by:
- Speaking at a similar speed, and using a similar amount of gestures.
- Feeding back the words they use in conversation.
- Mirroring the way they sit, the amount of eye contact, and the facial expression.

You can get away with a surprising amount of mirroring and matching: they don't seem to notice!

4. Anchoring

Anchoring is the process of linking a touch, sound, or visual input to an emotion. When the woman laughs, you can click your fingers, or touch her and it will anchor the emotion to the click or touch. Later you can try to re-trigger the emotion by simply firing the anchor- the touch or click. You can also anchor by playing songs when she is with you that she will later hear and associate to being with you.

5. Patterns

NLP patterns for seduction involve the use of language to bring out an emotion in the girl that is desirable given the current circumstances. An example of an NLP seduction pattern would be:

"Have you ever just met someone and almost immediately you start to feel incredibly comfortable like you've known this person forever and then as you just let the barriers drop and you let them more inside you start to naturally feel a sense of rightness, like this is meant to be."

NLP is a powerful tool of influence, and to land the girl of your dreams you are going to want to use all the tools at your disposal to maximise your chances. Work on the above techniques and your newfound success with women will surprise and delight you!

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Is your house or apartment romance ready for seducing single women by using seductive lighting? Let me explain what I mean:

When you have a girl come over to your place you need to make sure that it is romantically ready with seductive and soft lighting. To make sure your place has seductive lighting, take these steps:

Replace all your 100 and 75 watt light bulbs with soft 40 watt bulbs. Those bright 100 watt bulbs will tend to make your date feel more tense. You want just the opposite effect in making her feel relaxed and receptive to your romantic advances towards her.

If possible, replace all your light switches with dimmer switches. This gives you the ultimate control of creating a soft and romantic atmosphere for seducing your date.

Of course, the ultimate lighting for romance, is a roaring fireplace. If you have one, always use it! Even in the summer - just lower the thermostat on your A/C. What I buy is the artificial logs. They make a nice romantic fire quickly.

Last but not least, is the ever popular way of creating romance is with the use of candles. Trust me guys, women love candlelight and it's a great way to get them turned on and ready for intimacy.

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In "Basic Instinct," Sharon Stone crosses her legs and reveals her "woman-hood" all for her employee and the world to see. That scene became one of the most memorable moments in entertainment history and is only one of the thousands seduction scenes we see in movies today.

The thing is what they do in the movies, you can also do in real life. But before you exert any effort, you have to make sure that the person you are going to seduce deserves it. Trust your instincts. Is he or she worth seducing?

Before you seduce anybody, make sure that you are confident. Are you happy with how you look and how you dress? How are you in making conversation? If you have a couple of problems in those areas, work on it first. If you feel confident with your looks, your brains and your skills, then that's when you start seducing.

Seduction can come in any form. It can be through eye contact or during conversations. First, eye contact. Just by looking at a person with a 'come hither' expression, if he or she is not dense, then you will be able to get your point across.
Next, conversation. How much of it should be about you and about the other person? If you talk about yourself, choose some areas that could boost you to him or her? If you ride horses, bring that up, then leave some to the imagination.

For some, the excitement from seduction is more on the chase. It is the thrill you get in enticing that person to come to you. For men, this is a turn on for them. Just the thought of wanting someone and pursuing them is exciting enough.

If you are to seduce an object of your affection, make it a point that the two of you will be alone at the right time and at the right place. Better if that will be the case for a long period of time. There are situations wherein your subject is in the same place as you. Take for example, a colleague from work. Now that adds more to the thrill – especially if he or she is throwing signs right back at you. If you are sure that the attraction is mutual and there is flirting, then it would only add up to your arousal.

Do not rush it. Relish it.

Sometimes though, we get carried away by our own delusions that we convince ourselves they are interested when in fact they are not. There are clues you should watch out for such as body language. Look at their eyes. Eyes are not only the mirrors to one's soul. It could also be the mirrors to one's heart or loin. Whichever, eyes are the give-away if he or she is into you. Trust your instincts. Compare how he or she talks to you? Is it different from how he or she talks to others?

Flirt – but not too much. When seducing our subjects, flirting is necessary. But once we go overboard – it can be a turn-off, especially if women do the first move. However, a man still wants to be re-assured that a woman is interested. It will only encourage him to pursue her more. For women, play 'getable-when-worked-for' instead of 'hard-to-get.'

You have to get your intentions clear. If the attraction is just sex, then let it be just about sex. No strings attached. But if a party (most of the time, it's the woman) wants to bring it up to another level, then it is better to talk about it.

Seduction is also a two-way street. If one of you is not interested, then the other may be rejected. But if there is hope to this flirtation, then surrender. Give in to your pleasures and act out those desires.

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If you've never experienced success in the seduction department out in the real world, your luck just might change in the cyber arena.

NEWBIES BE WARNED

Before we move on to cyber seduction tips, it's imperative that newbies be warned about expecting too much from their first attempt. While it's quite possible for you to strike gold at the first try, it's also possible for you to fail. Nevertheless, don't beat yourself too much about it. It's your first time, so cut yourself some slack. Practice makes perfect and as long as you follow our tips to the letter, you're sure to get lucky sooner than you think!

STRIKING A BALANCE BETWEEN REALITY AND FANTASY

Have you ever fantasized about becoming the life of the party if only you were more lively, open, interesting, yada, yada? With cyber seduction, your fantasies have the opportunity to come true! The physical barriers between you and your cyber date allow you to eliminate inhibitions and insecurities that a live date would never permit you to forget.

Remember, however, that what we're advising you to do is just to let the real "you" out: the person of interest under the layers of shyness and drab clothing. We're not, however, advising you to become someone you're truly not. If you pretend to be someone else, whatever success your cyber seduction ploy gains is merely an illusion.

DON'T BE AFRAID TO BECOME TOO FUNNY, TOO SEXY, OR TOO EVERYTHING

Let yourself shine! This may probably be the only opportunity you have to impress a date without risking live embarrassment. Crack that joke you've always known would make people laugh. Say those sexy words you're sure would turn your date on. Don't let this opportunity go to waste!

TIMING IS STILL CRITICAL

Even if it's still just a cyber date where no sun or moon rises and indicates the passage of time, you still have to be disciplined and patient enough to let nature takes it course between the two of you. Even if you think you've already met the one you wish to spend the rest of your life with, it doesn't necessarily mean that the other person feels the same. Give both of yourselves time to know and fall for each other more.

FRIENDSHIP IS SEDUCTIVE

Sometimes, people go online looking for friendship or simply for someone to talk to. The lure of great companionship and meaningful conversation is too seductive to resist for most people. Thus, make sure that you don't concentrate your whole mind on becoming sexy and funny. You have to make an effort to become understanding and sympathetic as well.

MAKE USE OF ONLINE RESOURCES

What's the use of having a cyber date if you don't take advantage of all the free resources provided by the Internet? Change the backdrop of your chat window, add music, and use lovely font if you think it can help. Invite your date to visit websites, participate in quizzes, and do other stuff online that you're sure would give both yourselves a lovely time.

ONE LAST WARNING TO ALL

Contrary to popular belief, women have double standards as well with regard to people they're dating online or offline. For men, naughty hot girls are for play while elegant chicks are ones they can bring home to momma. For women, what their hearts hunger for is sometimes different from what their brains are telling them to go after. Consequently, what role do you want to play: angel or devil? This will ensure that you're entertaining no illusions when your cyber seduction success becomes successful.

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To do that, you've got to practice by talking to women a LOT.

For every minute you spend reading or theorizing about women,
spend ten minutes actually INTERACTING with women in the REAL
world.

All the theory in the world is useless if you can't even get
the basic guts to approach a woman.

Get your butt out there and do it and realize that REAL
INTERACTION is the lifeblood of this "game" called
learning how to att.ract women.

Your goal in the beginning should just be to get COMFORTABLE
talking to women a LOT.

Just chat your butt off.


It's really no biggie.

Focus on your CHAT, on your voice tonality sounding
passionate and powerful and fun; not boring, and focus
on having conversations that are INTERESTING.

If you think you're passed that, then try to also
project a certain amount of your se.xual state by actually
thinking se.xual thoughts.

This way, all the tips you read will actually make much
more sense and also will prevent you from misinterpreting
the information.

You will have a real life CONTEXT in which to understand
all the material you read.

So make it a goal for the next month to talk to women
everyday, no matter where you find them.

Keep your conversations light and playful and avoid any
boring topics like the weather, your work, or any heavy
academic type material.

Bust on her jewelry or clothing or shoes instead of harping
on about the cost of parking spaces.

So what's with the playful thing then?

Well... EVERYTHING.

Stop being serious around women.

Most guys are way too serious around women and thus
imply that they are desperate, boring, and uptight,
all of which are ATTRACTION DESTROYERS.

Instead, be playful with women, and make your
interactions FUN.

Whether it's a fun teasing, or tickling her, or telling
her a funny story that really happened to you, or
role-playing with her that she is after you and you are
hard to get, all these are FUN.

Being playful and fun implies that you will also be fun in
bed, fun to hang around with, and also that you have your
life under control.

All this has "pulling" power in the same way a giant planet
cannot help but "pull" in any surrounding material.

Being playful also helps overcome her socially conditioned
fear of being labeled a "slut" for talking to you, or for
getting physical with you, etc, because in her mind, it's
all "playful" and not too serious.

Playful is not just about what you say, it's your
expressions on your face, it's your voice, it's your choice
of style, it's where you choose to hang out.

See, if you don't understand how women are wired and
how the dating process works, then almost every 'logical'
thing you do; things you ASSUME might score you points with
your woman will NOT work.

It's a whole new 'world' out there in the dating
scene right now, it's far more complicated than it has ever
been and everything you were taught on dating by the media,
your parents, friends, etc in past just won't flat out work
anymore.

I'm not joking.

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I want to give Michael Jackson as a "dating example" because he is a phenomenon. Since years his female fans shout and cry although it may seem unexplainable for other men. He combines several features mentioned here on this site that makes this more understandable:

* Dance
* Have that something special (this applies to his face and clothes)
* Be successful and self-confident
* Shaved face
* Magnetic Mystery Man
* Dress nicely
* The irresistible Resistible (he is quite non-sexual, neither man nor woman)
* No sex talks
* Impotent homosexual
* Do something for others (he sings "Save the world"-songs and engages in charity organizations)
* Don't symbolize a loser (he is one of the top earners and one of the best dancers)

He fails however at

* Deep voice (but he has a strong voice)

Source:100DatingTip

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When you have the telephone number of the girl and want to call her for the first time there are some things to consider:

• Don't call her too soon. This could scare her away.
  
• Call her 2 to 4 days after you met her. These are reasonable numbers but you can try different ones. You could even tell her when you will call her in the very moment when she tells you the telephone number. Stick to your word then!
• If you get her answering machine then you can leave a message saying WHEN you call her back.
• Have a plan of what to say. A blank head and stuttering give the wrong impression.
• Turn off any TV set or any music.
• Do a little bit of small talk
• After a conversational flow is established offer to meet her.
• Try to find out whether she is really your type.
• make a few suggestions where you could go together, but don't force her to a specific place and don't criticize her if she doesn't want to go there.
  A few places where you can go on the first date:
  • Cinema/Movies
  • Bowling, ice-skating
  • Restaurant/Coffee shop
  • Something special (Circus, theatre, local events)

Source: 100DatingTips

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Read the following female rejection quotes and realize they are just words. These quotes are about anything that can happen to you. Be prepared to hear them and prepare yourself not to become the effect of them.

• "No thank you"
• "Sorry, you're not my type"
• "I have a boy-friend"
• "Get off"
• "Get off, you moron"
• "You? Never!!"
• "Shut up"
• "Don't waste your time"
• "Don't waste my time"
• "No thanks, you are ugly!"
• "No way"
• "Phew!"
• "Everybody has wishes"
• "Fuck you"
• "No, not with you"
• "You can ask my dog. Maybe he will take you"
• "Don't even dare!"
• "Grow a bit more and come back later"
• "If you were the last man on earth I wouldn't date you"
• "Sorry, but I am concentrating on my career"
• "Don't even try"
• "You stink"
• "Fuck off"
• "Are you a man or a woman?"
• "Get me a beer and get off"
• "Sorry, I am not in the right mood for this"
• "Sorry, I am not THAT kind of girl"
• "Hey, girls, look at him"
• "Oh, god, not again"
• "Do I look like I would hang out with guys like you?"
• "Go to Jerry Springer, you freak"
• "With you? Why should I?"
• "I don't date co-workers"
• "Yeah, but I don't like YOU"
• "It's not you. It's me"
• "Would you please leave me alone"
• "Where did they let YOU out?"
• "I don't date neighbors"
• "No, I just want to have friendly relationship. I need a friend not a lover"
• "You're too old"
  "You're 20 years too old"
  "You're too young"
  "You're not my age"
• "With you? Look at you!"
• "You are too fat"
• "YOU come to a girl like ME? Don't you have eyes in your head?"
• "Sorry, I just talk to pretty men"
• "My life is too complicated right now."
• "Is here any nest where jerks like you come out?"
• "You are too skinny"
• "I just split up. I need some time out"
• "I am a lesbian"
  "Sorry, mate, I am gay"
• "You men suck"
• "You wish"
• "I don't date idiots"
• "I don't date guys like you"
• "You're so ugly"
• "One more word and I call security"
• "I hate men"
• "I can't stand men like you"
• ...

All the above statements can be accompanied by gestures and facial expressions and emotional flows. Realize they are just gestures/emotional flows. Be prepared to see/feel them and prepare yourself not to become the effect of them.

• Judging you disgusted from head to toe
• Shaking her head
• Making a disgusted face
• Making a funny face (= you are an idiot)
• Sending you away with a hand movement
• Showing her palm (= stop)
• Showing you her middle finger
• "Sending" you a "being disgusted" flow
• "Sending" you a "don't want you near" flow
• "Sending" you a "bad luck wish" flow
• Tipping her head with her forefinger (= you are an idiot)
• Blowing cigarette smoke into your face
• Wetting you with her drink on purpose
• Showing you her tongue disgustingly
• Making invalidating/devaluing noises
• Running off to her friends and telling what an idiot you are and laughing at you
• ...

Source: 100DatingTips

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How to make acquaintance with an unfamiliar woman or man? It’s a perpetual problem. The article of the onlinedatingtip.com offers a few tips for people who are looking for their partner, how to attract the picked “victim’s” attention…

Walking in the midtown may become an adventure


Take a walk in the city center on a Saturday afternoon. Disguise yourself as a tourist and take a camera with you. If you don’t have one, borrow or buy a cheap disposable camera. If you catch sight of somebody you like turn to her and ask her to take a photo of you in front of a show-place but in a way that she’ll take the photo of you and not the background. Carry on and ask her if you could take a picture of her. This way you create an opportunity for a conversation. It might turn out that she is also alone and offers you to be your guide. The camera method has another advantage: it urges you to visit romantic places, museums, parks, where lots of singles spend their weekend afternoons. According to a professional photographer he is always successful in making interesting acquaintances if he has his camera with him. At the age of modern automatic cameras you don’t have to be a professional: take a snapshot of somebody and flirt with her.

Flirting at the university

You can attend either the lectures at the university or only the canteen, you’ll be able to flirt. University is a good place for flirting, because of the fact that a number of people gather there. If you catch sight of someone who interests you, simply ask her what lectures she attends. “Which year are you in? Do you have a determinate plan or do you study for the sake of entertainment?” The repertory of questions is infinite. You can recommend that you take a coffee break or go to library together. You may tell her how splendid books you have at home and ask her if she feels like looking at them.

Flirt while waiting line

The situation is advantageous because the ones in front of and behind you are waiting to see the same play, movie or exhibition as you. So the topic of the conversation is given. For example if you are waiting outside the movies you can turn to the lucky ones like this: “Have you heard what the director did at the premier?” At the end you’ll be sitting next to your new acquaintance at eat popcorn from the same bag.

Flirt in a cafe

At the table next to yours a pretty woman is reading her newspaper. Ask her if there’s something interesting in it. Her answer will probably be negative, for which you may reply: “Don’t you think that there should be a paper in which there are only good pieces of news?” This strategy can be applied on the way around as well, you can read out the titles or a few lines of the editorial to the lonely man sitting at the next table. Go to the café on Sunday mornings, it’s a convenient time to talk about life’s things.

Flirt in the park

You’re in a beautiful park, there are trees and birds, light and shade around you’re solving cross-words sitting on a bench. When you look up cogitatively you observe a handsome man rubbernecking on the other half of the bench. Mutter silently: “Hm … Aztecan sun-god … seven letters down.” Then turn directly to the attractive stranger: “Don’t you happen to know what the name of the Aztecan sun-god might be? Seven letters.” After you excited his curiosity he’ll approach you and your cross-words. You’re in for it. It’s going to be a pleasant afternoon. To your next walk in the park take some bird seeds with you. If you catch sight of a pretty passer-by, sprinkle some seeds toward her. Birds will troop around her, that’s for sure. Walk to her with an innocent face and address her: “It seems birds like you … And I know why!” Smile at her and introduce yourself to her. This is also a successful method!

If you go to the museum…

…don’t forget to visit the gift-shop or the restaurant of the museum. You can do other things as well in a museum than watching exhibition cases. Some people go there to have coffee. Why don’t you follow their example? It’s easy to enter upon a conversation. Topics seem to offer themselves: you can converse on the exhibits, artists, the building of the museum. Don’t forget about the gift-shop: it’s easy to make new friends among the many bric-a-bracs.

Exploit the intervals

If you go to theater, opera, to your favorite actor’s performance, don’t stay at your place during the intervals, but go to the lounge for a drink or a cake. If the audience are squeezing toward the buffet, step forward and take part in the conversation. The topic will probably be on today’s play or previous plays. Test your communicative skills and narrate a few stories about the lives of the scenic heroes: it’s possible that by the end of the play you’ll have shared the cheerful atmosphere of the play with your own hero/heroine.

The best place at a party is by the bar or the buffet

Why? Because people looking for some food or drink come and go all the time. If the clambake is held in a hotel you can relocate your residence next to the cloakroom, because the circulation is reasonable there as well: people longing for some fresh air or fleeting the tumult or even looking for love – it’s possible that you make new friends there. If you encounter some boring woman leave her with some polite excuse and find another busy place. Perhaps you should look around one more time before. Remember, you have decided to get to know as many people as possible tonight! If you encounter somebody you find attractive smile at her and ask her: “Wouldn’t you like to continue this conversation during dinner on Tuesday?” observe what type you deal with, what may interest her, use your illusions to suggest something that she will presumably accept. Dancing marathon? Marathon race? Old horror movies? Your attentiveness and politeness will surely attract your new acquaintance’s attention and curiosity and will be all afire with the desire to see you again. With your empressement and cordiality you will attract people wherever you may be.

Eat at the dining car if you’re traveling on a train

You can pack food for the trip and mumble on it alone, but why don’t you visit the dining car? Traveling may seem shorter there and you’ll have a great time, especially if you encounter interesting people. Perhaps your future one-and-only is traveling on exactly this train with you.

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Candlelight Wedding Chapel is a well-known las Vegas entity that has been featured in a country music video by Diamond Rio. Howie Mandel married here, and John Tesh renewed vows with his wife. This las Vegas wedding chapel has a lot to offer clients from around the world and enjoys a brisk business near the financial district. Close to business and entertainment, this longtime chapel has the experience and credentials to provide you and your beloved with a memorable and enjoyable visit. You don’t have to wonder whether they can carry it off or the day will be ruined. Put your wedding into the staff’s capable hands and then relax.

Set on a lovely, well-kept piece of land, the Candlelight Chapel attracts visitors and prospective couples who are considering marriage due to its well-known reputation and the natural features that make this chapel popular to locals and visitors alike.

When you purchase an affordable wedding package, you can bring along family, friends, and other guests to take part in your exchange of vows. Prices range from $199 to $499 and include a bevy of services. The lowest fee covers the chapel rental, marriage certificate holder, CD music, several photos, and carnation flowers. The $299 package upgrades flowers to roses and adds more photos. You also can get a video of the ceremony. For $399 you get a rose cascade arrangement, a professional organist, and a candle-lighting ceremony. The $499 price adds a unity candle, wedding garter, and a leather-bound wedding album.

Additional amenities include the option of ordering a cake or other pastries, a helicopter ride, and Elvis weddings. But the prices do not cover the minister’s fee or the chauffeur’s gratuity. The chapel takes pleasure in treating guests like royalty to ensure their wedding day is as special as they had hoped it would be. Several newlyweds contacted the Candlelight Chapel within a matter of days, months, or weeks to emphasize how happy they were with the service that was provided and with the overall outcome of their special celebration.

You can join the ranks of civilians and everyday people alike by leaning more about what this romantic little chapel has to offer and possibly choosing to hold your own service here. From the limo driver, to the minister, to the coordinator who helps you pull it all together, everyone makes it their business and their duty to ensure that your dreams come true when you choose the Candlelight for your wedding festivities.

Find out ahead of time what you can afford to pay so there will be no surprises afterward. You can visit this chapel online at Candlelight Wedding Chapel.

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Thinking of choosing Las Vegas for your wedding destination? Here are the Top 5 reasons to get married in Las Vegas, with some simple advice.

Top Five Reasons To Get Married In Las VegasBy Sarah Steinberg, Special to LasVegasWeddings.com

Everyone knows about the lure and magic of getting married in Las Vegas. It usually includes an impromptu weekend trip to the City of Sin where the possibilities for a different kind of wedding are endless. Whether it's getting married by Elvis, or staying in the car and having a drive-through ceremony, there are many upsides to getting married in Vegas. It's all about location and in Vegas you can't go wrong.

1. The themed wedding is always a blast. The kitsch factor is high and the weddings themselves, unusual to say the least. Why go for the run-of-the mill traditional wedding when you can go The Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapel? The most popular wedding package at The Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapel is "Elvis Blue Hawaii," where Elvis performs the ceremony and sings hit songs. While this should come as no surprise, there are plenty of other packages, equally as entertaining, to choose from. King Tut will be your Minister if you choose the Egyptian theme. Merlin the Magician will marry you should you choose the Camelot package. If you're in the mood for something a bit more racy, you can opt for the Gangster wedding and be united in wedded bliss by the Godfather. The Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapel has thirty packages to choose from.

2. Getting married on the Las Vegas strip can save you a lot of money if you're looking for a bargain. This way, everybody wins wedding packages starting as low as $40, you can't lose…only at the Casino. On the website www.lvgardenoflove.com, a simple, no-frills wedding goes for $40 and the prices go up from there, the more lavish the affair. Prices are competitive so you can find many other good deals around town.

3. If money isn't an object, you can still have the unique kind of wedding that only Vegas has to offer; one that is more upscale and still maintains that unique Las Vegas flavor. Weddings Las Vegas offers many kinds of weddings; from various Elvis packages to ceremonies conducted in beautiful, natural locales. These natural settings are some of the best kept secrets in the Las Vegas area. If you're in the mood to be serenaded by dueling Elvis's, great! If not, and you'd prefer something a tad more traditional, yet still adventurous, you can make it happen at one of the beautiful local national parks such as Red Rock Canyon and The Valley of Fire. If you want to venture out a bit further, your wedding can take place in the Grand Canyon. Weddings Las Vegas offers special packages for weddings that take place in both The Valley of Fire and Grand Canyon. These special packages include a helicopter ride to locations atop these beautiful natural creations for a once-in-a lifetime experience.

4. Another good reason to choose Las Vegas as your wedding destination: Las Vegas is an adult playground that is open 24/7. The sky's the limit for pre-wedding parties; bachelorette and bachelor parties. If you're coming in from the Midwest, Vegas is such a feast for the eyes it will probably stop you dead in your tracks. It's all here, from tame to raunchy, and it's all within your reach.

5. Ah, the memories! Where else in the world can you find such a variety of weddings to choose from? Whether you want your wedding to be campy or classy, whether you choose to include a helicopter ride or a rollercoaster ride, your Las Vegas wedding can't help but be a fabulous and fun experience! If you get married by King Tut or atop the Grand Canyon, you are sure to have great stories for the grandkids!

Visit http://www.get-married-in-vegas.com/ or http://www.lasvegasweddings.com for the best selection of Las Vegas Wedding Chapels and More! Or Call 1-800-327-VOWS (8697).

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