Australian Online Dating Site Tells Why So Many Men Are Attracted to Older Women

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Information compiled from an online dating service explains that many male singles choose dating older women over younger women. Access to such information can be found on any online dating service that contains male heterosexual members. The Australian online dating service that helped compile this article shared some interesting results based on its male members profiles. Our article also gives females some food for thought into the minds of many of today's male singles. Sorry girls, we are not offering open ended secrets into the how and why of how men think ( Ill bet you wish we could though ), instead an emerging trend that is evolving in the style of lady many guys are seeking.

Our findings were based on 2000 male profiles. Our study was based on men between 18-45 years of age. The profiles we used were for men who were searching out a long term or serious romance. Our results do not indicate male singles whose profiles indicated they were only looking for casual sex or who were into serial dating. Statistics for men who wanted short term relationships vary from the statistics for males looking long term love......

Over 60% of the profiles we researched were low income earners and indicated that they would prefer to meet a female long term partner who is up to 10 years older. This same group of men suggested in their profiles that they would like to meet an older women who is financially secure and they would be willing to let their cougar take the leading role in a relationship if there was financial stability. Visitors to free online dating and singles services are also common in this demographic of male singles. The profiles we used in our findings found that financial security was the main priority for many. Free online dating and chat services were considered a logical avenue for finding singles given that there are no subscriptions. The men used in our study often concluded that the way to find financial stability and love could be rolled up into one package by pursuing ladies who are financially successful which often meant someone older and experienced.

Interestingly, nearly half of this same group of male singles had little or no female companionship in their younger years for different reasons ie: Did not have a mother or sister/s who were available to maintain or influence their upbringing, and subconsciously looked for this in later life by way of a more mature and nurturing type romantic partner. Male singles in this group were also found to have a submissive nature. They were content to be given orders by their female partner and to have the less dominate role in the relationship.

Whilst we have no access to statistics to substantiate how much this trend has evolved over the last 20 years a theory which is evident is that the progression of women's equality now givens women more choice and freedom that men have always had. Whilst historically women have played a submissive role in relationships, many males are keen to take up this role.

Comparing the other 40% of male singles in our group who are on higher incomes, half of these profiles indicated that they were interested in a long term romance with an older women. This group of men felt more secure than their smaller income counterparts as their high salaries provided security for them.

Not surprisingly, out of the entire group of male singles who were interested in finding older women, 70% of this group indicated a more experienced sexual partner was also a deciding factor in choosing an older women.

The main conclusion that resulted from this research was that the tide now seems to be turning in the singles and dating arena for certain groups. Many female singles are in control of their future and are no longer counting on men to show them the way.

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Australian Online Dating Site Tells Why So Many Men Are Attracted to Older Women

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Russian Girls - July 15, 2008 at 10:22 AM

I was thinking about this problem when I started dating a woman who is 7 years older than me. I still ca not get why she was so tempting for me.

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Cougar Dating - April 9, 2010 at 1:46 AM

I think most men date with cougars because they are just so experienced when it comes to sexual life so that they believe a night with an older woman could be great.

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Online Dating is fun. Men prefer older women because they are matured enough and they are more experienced not only in bed but also to their lives. Older women knows how to understand the desired pleasures for the younger men. In connection to this older women really loves to be with younger men because they are sweet and very caring.

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Brody - August 13, 2012 at 8:10 PM

From personal experience, younger men will typically date older women who are financially well off as an added perk since most younger men are still working on getting their careers off the ground and aren't really ready to start a family or a serious relationship.

Filipino girls - August 15, 2012 at 1:34 AM

Actually i don't have that much idea about a men dating a woman older than them but ill gonna base it on my friend's experience. I have this friend he has been in relationship for a women 6 years older than him, they have been together for almost a year now.And i could say that he's contented and happy. I ask him once what's the feeling being in relationship with a women 6 years older than him. He told me it is very nice and challenging as well , also he told me that it is much better because the girl is already mature , can understand easily . If i will be given a chance i wanna try it also but i think not this time because i've been active dating online for about a mount already.

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kapish chandra - June 23, 2014 at 2:27 AM

That's a good assessment of the way single men go about finding a date on the online dating sites. It is true that even from a young age, boys are interested in mature sort of women, perhaps as they think they would be experienced. It is possible to search of free mature dating sites in USA for older women and they also provide a good option for a one night stand, as they many times are not looking for a long term relationship.

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